Yeah, that's just what hubby told me at dinner. It sucks. I'm a pretty good shot, but, yeah, in the moment if you're feeling threatened, I get it. Your best skills aren't necessarily going to come to bear. I don't think that's the solution, anyway. Last I saw there was no video released from the Charlotte incident yet. So, in my mind, it's still up in the air whether he had a gun or a book. The guy in Tulsa was not armed and in fact had his arms over his head in that video. What else is someone supposed to do to avoid being killed? This is modern-day lynching going on. There are too many black men being killed. White men make up the majority and they are not killed nearly as often as black men.