We are all our own worst enemy, it's just cos we did not get perfect training and also we got traumas that messed up our foundations. It's OK. You did the right thing by posting and you helped me to learn how to put things in a way that someone will listen without being cruel or unkind. It's very hard to learn that. I think it's an important part of 'growing up". I would hate to hurt anyone, but I know I need to keep trying to learn how to help others without being an a##hole or unkind. I am 62 this year and still learning how to be a grownup. This helped me a lot, thank you.
We are so lucky to have our little village. (I'd be the one who smacks big kids upside of the head when they play up and then get them to help me ice cupcakes). I'd also be the local curry cooker. Curry fixes everything for a moment. :) Curry and cupcakes.