Colorful and hopefully optimistic but maybe hateful occasionally

[littleoc]

Made a Facebook post that's vague but hopefully gets people to stop texting me. Im going insane

 

[littleoc]

My family members need to just leave me alone for a while

 

[littleoc]

I deleted the Facebook post. My family will find waya to say I'm not doing good enough no matter what

 

[Teasel]

Can you temporarily block them?

 

[littleoc]

I've silenced notifications from everyone but my sister. So that will help. Thank you

I haven't silenced the realtor himself for obvious reasons but hopefully will be okay

 

[littleoc]

Lol the realtor texted me to say get out by November 1

 

[littleoc]

Merry holiday season or whatever lol

 

[littleoc]

He's trying to be supportive, he doesn't have to care. This is such a weird situation, will be glad when it's over at least

 

[littleoc]

Mixed between upset because this shouldn't be happening but relieved I finally won't be the one responsible for this stupid house

 

[littleoc]

Rehoming my bird tomorrow. Not looking forward to it. 20 years of love will go with her though, and hopefully it will truly be as great of a home as it looks like it will be

Very upset but genuinely really do hope this is the best for her

 

[Teasel]

Will be thinking of you littleoc

 

[ms spock]

Even just researching taking on a mortgage is going to be stressful - especially if you are doing it for someone else's benefit.

This^^^

You have already arranged all of the things to get you into the hosptial and to finally get care for you.

This is so important.

You need that time to rest and recover from all you've been thru, with people who can help you. Really help you.

This^^^

If your sister wants the house she can take out a mortgage and let you rent from her - after!

Yes your sister can take action. It is not your responsibility to fix and alleviate her anxiety.

you get the help you need.

This^^^

This hospital journey has been a long process, please don't let someone who shows up at the last minute to make demands derail you

Our dysfunctional families always turn to sabotaged us getting care, at the last minute, when the time to take action was two - five years ago.

You have been planning to go to the hospital for a long time now.

You responsibly rehomed all your furbabies and feather babies.

It is your turn now to go to hospital and get what you need and want

Maybe write this down like a mantra? So you can read all this when your family tries to hook you back in so the dysfunctional family unit is not challenged by you seeking the assistance?

When we've played a part in our family. They desperately want to drag us back before we get away.

So they have been going full circus and your family will work to make that tent bigger and bigger and the clowns crazier and crazier.

@Freida makes some important points.

Your siblings are all adults. It is time that they take responsibility.

It is your time now.