everyone I know who has endometriosis has endured childhood trauma.
Add to my list endometriosis, 2 laparoscopies to remove lesions not just in the womb but on my colon. But, that is much better these days. Have to have my tubes flushed before the IVF, but have been told that this is the last time they can do anything surgically in this area, so best to do it as part of the IVF process.
Endometriosis is classified in the same bag as IBS and CFS. We don't now the cause but the possibilities do include emotional causes. It is thought (not proven) to have some neurological cause where the brain's signals are messed up. So, the brain sends signals to parts of the body to do something it shouldnt. Such as lesions and cists in endometriosis, and inflammation in IBS (the gut is in the top 3 for the largest amount of nero-sensors in the body), and autoimmune irregularity in CFS (over active or under active immune system shown in T cell tests). So, the connection Nicolette has made makes perfect sense to me.
P.S. The only odd thing that came up in fertility testing was that my basal body temp is lower than normal.
I run really cold too. Thanks for mentioning this, I will look into it and start monitoring my temperate. Sounds better than monitoring mucus levels :eek:
I am wondering if that's why I can't have a baby. It truly hits my core when I realize that being abused has damaged me in yet another way.
I know how you feel fairywings. And, I get angry too, it is justified. But, we can't let the illness win by getting upset and increasing our anxiety. Life has thrown us some nasty curve balls, absolutely, but the past does not have control of our future. That is all ours for the taking.
We have a future goal of being well and having a family, which is great. But for every goal that we have, we need to set small goals to help us along the way. You can't eat an elephant all at once, you have to take little bites.
There are many ways to have a family - surrogasy, adoption, IVF etc - and then there are miracles. There is always hope for miracles.
I was talking with a friend who was trying for three years with IVF and still nothing. Then when she stopped IVF, she fell pregnant with twin boys! The boys are two now and she said, 'Don't get me wrong, I love my boys, they are my little miracles, but I really only asked for one'...LOL she needs a holiday I think :) Honorary Aunty PS to the rescue :D
Love, PS xxoo