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barefoot
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No, you're right @insignificant ...I am doing a bit of mind-reading here.
When we have these conversations, she is always the first to say 'I'm sure you must feel let down...' Which isn't something I've ever said - I've never said that she's let me down. But that's always her take on these things. So, maybe she feels in these moments that she has let me down? And yet...then she does something similar again at some point!
And, you know, we're not talking about that often. And sometimes she has absolutely gone above and beyond (including now, I think, when she is checking in most days to see how I am) But, yeah...she is not always the most consistent. I also don't think she has a great memory. So, I don't think she always remembers what she's agreed to do! But, still...if that's the case, it's kind of her job to find a strategy to help her with that, I think?
When we have these conversations, she is always the first to say 'I'm sure you must feel let down...' Which isn't something I've ever said - I've never said that she's let me down. But that's always her take on these things. So, maybe she feels in these moments that she has let me down? And yet...then she does something similar again at some point!
And, you know, we're not talking about that often. And sometimes she has absolutely gone above and beyond (including now, I think, when she is checking in most days to see how I am) But, yeah...she is not always the most consistent. I also don't think she has a great memory. So, I don't think she always remembers what she's agreed to do! But, still...if that's the case, it's kind of her job to find a strategy to help her with that, I think?