Dating vanilla while kinky — worth the effort?

[westdomemizatrix]

I've dated a few vanilla subs in the past years, and the relationships ended when my kinks came up. I'm wondering if it's worth trying again or just sticking to people in the lifestyle.

Anyone here made it work across that divide?

 

[Ecdysis]

Do you have PTSD?

 

[StarChild]

I'm wondering as well... What does this have to do with PTSD?
Do you suffer from a professionally diagnosed PTSD? Yes....No? Or are you just bored?..

 

[Dark.Green.Feathers]

you post a lot about this, do you have PTSD? what does the F4F on your profile mean?
our supporter role here is for people who have relatives/friends/partners/other close people in their lives with PTSD who they support.

there are well-meaning people who come here to help sufferers and supporters of sufferers but don’t have any experience with either in their personal lives so don’t end up doing much for the community.

 

[parrotthepolly]

what does the F4F on your profile mean?

It stands for "follow for follow".