I have been disconnected to real life for years now, I tend to isolate myself from majority of people, events, everything.
I don't know, I guess we have to have enormously strong will to be able to deliberately put ourselves into social situations which we would rather avoid.
In my case even the strong feeling of guilt isn't helpful.
Or we really have to feel yearning for interactions, as far as I am concerned I am still feeling fear mostly.
If I found some solution I would let you know.