Dysfunction & Fighting: How Do You Deal With It?

[pandora]

When I hear yelling...it shuts me down! I think it is dissasociation....but I feel it come over me and I start to blank out as to not hear the yelling. I deal with it frequently with my mother as you know....it just shuts me down and literally makes me feel sick to my stomach.

 

[goingonhope]

dysfunction, anger, rage, fighting, screaming, and yelling

how dose it effect you, and how do you handle it????

Presently very ill right night again due to a lot of this just a bit earlier and much recently; Not causing or a part of any of it, just quite ill and suffering as the result. Figured I qualify that I'm not a part of it because others might think what with me having the diagnosed Ptsd, I must be to blame.

Physically, I do a horrible job handling this stuff and it's killing me.

 

[Deleted member 541]

Me too Hope, and I do the only thing I know, I leave or cut off the relationship. I just can't deal with this kind of shit anymore in my life. I would rather be alone, than keep re traumatizing myself.....

I hope that you feel better soon....(((hugs)))