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Escape Route Ideas?

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Does anyone have any? I've been looking all over with no luck. I have hardly any money and no friends or family. I'm stuck living with a verbally abusive boyfriend that doesn't love me. I'm thinking CREATIVE. I've already tried a bunch of new angles. Trained to teach at a dojang, bartended, sold all willy nilly for a phone company, taught belly dance, surveys, can't find a gig to teach overseas, military won't take me, and now I'm at a coffee shop. It's working so far, but I want out of this city. It's aweful here and I don't fit in. I'm thinking overseas gypsy colonies or SOMETHING before I'm just very simply homeless. HELP.
 
Wow that's rough. Peace core? I thought of the French foreign legion when I was in escape mode but they don't take chicks....what a jib.

Hmm or some charity's will send people over seas to work for them.
 
Well this isn't very "ethical" but I know someone who has done it and gotten away with it.

Basically to teach English as foreign language in most country's they will require you have a degree. But they don't check and the print out off the internet of my friends "degree" got them the job and they still live and work in Japan today 3 years later.
 
You would be surprised how many people will just take you at your word. I mean I know another guy who got a job in London by lying about a degree he never had, never got caught. If you act like you belong no one questions. My whole CV or résumé is bull shit. If I could hold down a job I'd get one tomorrow by bull shit and fake confidence painted on like make up. That's how I've gotten all the jobs I've ever liked.

I guess like a lot of work places if the tattoos were covered (if they can be by long sleeves or what not) but maybe South America or Europe somewhere.

I dunno but I hope you figure it out. Xx
 
Before kids I just generally packed up & left. All else fails, I can always cook in a restaurant. High turnover even in good kitchens.

Some random thoughts. Some of these I've done, all of them I've been around. Cough. A lot of these are travel related, because I believe very strongly in other people paying for my adventures whenever possible. Either local or international. ;) :

- It's still summertime so there are RennFaires / that circuit to teach belly dance in, and they travel several different circuits into the late fall.

- Circus Arts is a helluva lot harder to break into, but worth looking into if you dance & do martial arts. Even a concession job is foot in the door, and most circuses have people working several jobs unless they're headlining.

- Crewing ... Either old school sailing ship (first 3mo is usually as a volunteer, lol most people don't last past 3mo, but it's room & board for 3mo free! After 3mo? Paid to do it. Putting on "Pirate" shows, and schlepping people about)... Or on one of the cargo ships / major shipping lines. I've done both. Cruise ships are a third option. Can be wicked hard to break into those, though, but multiple skills help, and you have bartending/dance/martial arts.

- Courrier... Nowhere near as much call for them these days since electronic signatures are accepted, but there are still things that need schlepping overseas that the value is intrinsic enough to need an escort, but not be worth an armed escort (several security companies specialize in those).

- Driver. Haven't looked lately, but there are usually several companies around that schlep cars to people cross country (or even Canada to Mexico) by driver instead of by truck. Aka, you drive someone's car from New York to LA, or Chicago to Aspen, or Toronto to Cozumel. Counts as being a professional driver, so that opens up the showers & bunk rooms at truck stops :)

- Archeology Dig ... These are "paying" volunteers, usually, not paid staff... And are usually several thousand dollars (3k-10k) but there are also scholarships & grants out there specifically to fund those paid slots. Especially in the Jewish community for digs in Israel. Love love love the Israeli coastline :D!!! Several of the ongoing digs are housed in resorts. But there are all kinds of quirky & very specific grants out there.

- Retreats & Kibbutz & Communes. I'm lumping these 3 together just because the concept is similar; you go as staff instead of as a paying guest.

- NGOs. Huge, wide, crazy range of work available in very niche areas. LOL. I usually went as armed security on medical missions... But I've seen everything from female ceramics instructors needed in Kabul Afghanistan (turquoise mountain a few years back), to it would be nice if you know what a hammer is, but not required! (Habitat for Humanity always ongoing, but they don't pay you; you fundraise the cost of the trip under their banner), to serious hikers/mountaineers only (unarmed med transport). All kinds of things. NGOs are quirky. Do your research in spades before signing.
 
http://www.idealist.org/
That's a site where you can search volunteer jobs.

Peace corps does say they can look at you if you have experience plus some higher education. Honestly, if I were you, I'd go ahead and get in touch with them. You never know unless you try.

Fishing in Alaska. It's rough, but I know people who have done it and really like the lifestyle.

Americorps - here's a link to their VISTA program. http://www.vistacampus.gov/chapter-1-background-purpose I don't see anything re: education requirement. These are paid and subsidized positions.
 
Do you have Women's Shelters in US? We do here. They are at secret locations and you can get temporary accomodation there. This would give you some headspace to work out what you want to do next. Also, they have social workers who can support you in what you would like to do and the use of computers to do your research.

Another idea is hospital ships. They take on people to do cleaning, cooking etc. but it takes time to do the applicaton.
 
http://www.idealist.org/
That's a site where you can search volunteer jobs.

Peace corps d...
Awesome!! Thanks @joeylittle !!

Do you have Women's Shelters in US? We do here. They are at secret locations and you can get temporary ac...

@Flossy we do!! Ours aren't that good, though. Last time I was in something similar one of my roommates "voices" would speak to me while I was trying to sleep and the other gave me the impression she was going to set my stuff on fire. Id rather be homeless and hide at night. Lol.

And a hospital ship sounds awesome!! But we don't have anything like that here. Even though I'm on the coast.
 
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Huh. They didn't ask for their ESL certification? I don't think Asia would work with my tattoos.
There was a guy a few years back, worked as science and research advisor for Kinnock, at the European Commission (Europe's big unelected government), he then went, well recommended, as science and research advisor to the Irish government. It took an investigative journalist to work out that his doctorate was bought from Russia. There was never a complaint from his bosses about the job he was doing well though.

It's something I've never given much thought to, but I've heard of people looking through alumni lists for someone with the same name, and younger or older as needed, and adjusting their resume to fit around it.

Harvard, Princeton, MIT....
 
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