General Even With The Ptsd And All, They Still Make Us Happy.

[Toria]

I love my Husband's strength too. These past few months he has simply been amazing, whilst I was the one that fell apart!!!

In fact, can I just copy and paste LizardViolet's post above as that could be me and mine!

 

[thegumshoe]

This is my first post on here and I am so thankful for all of you!

I feel so lucky so much of the time that my sweet, loving, funny, caring guy and I found each other.

The things that he has been through and the fact that he functions so highly is really astonishing to me. I call on my patience and calm daily, but I dont feel that I am selling myself short. He makes me so happy so much of the time, and despite his chronic silences, I have adjusted and feel very blessed to have this man in my life. Its been a good lesson in not being reactionary. I've really learned how to take a pause before taking things to heart.

 

[Sweetpea76]

Did I mention he's cute as a button? Lol

 

[I'll make tea]

My guy is an old school gentleman too.

He is so patient, I never saw him angry. He is great with kids and animals. He is so loyal and when I was pregnant (which was an accident) he proposed to me.

Like others already mentioned my guy also has a great work ethic and he spends very little of the money he earns on himself but most on our kid.

He is protective of me + our son... well may be a little bit overly protective, but it is still sweet. Always makes sure we are alright.

He goes out of his way to help other people. He has courage. He works out a lot to stay fit + he looks cute without even noticing.

What would I wish for? I wished he was more talkative / communicative / outgoing / would talk about his feelings more.
It would be much easier to understand him / his PTSD if he did. He does however seem to think that men who talk about themselves are weak and pathetic.