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I mean, seriously should I start a PC for my list?
Yes, why not! I tend to over think things.
Yes, why not! I tend to over think things.
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Ayesha, I was just going from one thread to another, and this one really got me interested. That's a great idea. The more we know, the less ignorant we are and we become more respectable of one another. Before the incident, when I was able to be a full-time therapist, I was always so awed by the different beliefs and so marvelled how people can express with grace their spiritual beliefs. I can say that those who practiced their beliefs - as is, or as they felt comfortable - were the ones who came out winners from therapy. Some were even surprised that I was interested and asked to understand more. I'm not searching a religious group or philosophy, but simply trying to become a better person with a bettered perspective of others. count me in ... Froggie
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Ayesha, I agree with all of the statements above.
I guess I want to understand better because of a situation I ran into a few month ago. My child was taking Tia Kon Do class at the Y and a lot of times I would participate in a women's group exercise class. One day I was sitting with all of the moms, some who happen to be Muslim and some who are Pentecostal. The question of the women's classes came up and I learned they did not participate because of a small window that did not have a blind, because men could see in. But what upset me was they were afraid to ask for a blind, so people wouldn't be offended by the request. It didn't seem right that anyone should feel so intimidated or unwelcome.
Bottom line, they are paying members and this is a women's only class, and a blind is a simple request so everyone can participate. So I ask for the blind. No one ask me why and it was installed. Now Muslim women, Pentecostal women, and anyone else can participate. Funny thing is everyone likes the blind. A lot of women feel self conscious in front of men and it gives everyone some privacy.
No one knows it was me who asked, and I hope no one ever does. What I hope for, is that people can develop respect and kindness towards each other, no matter what our different beliefs. So to me, learning is understanding and preventing the continuation of misunderstanding and bias.
Unhinged, I would love to learn more about Buddhism, as this is another religion that I know nothing about.
Personally, I am a Christian, but don't belong to a particular denomination. I try to live my life from an ethical framework called Agape love. The best way that I can describe it would be primitive Christianity.
Let me know if anyone decides on the PC. I would love to listen.
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I guess I want to understand better because of a situation I ran into a few month ago. My child was taking Tia Kon Do class at the Y and a lot of times I would participate in a women's group exercise class. One day I was sitting with all of the moms, some who happen to be Muslim and some who are Pentecostal. The question of the women's classes came up and I learned they did not participate because of a small window that did not have a blind, because men could see in. But what upset me was they were afraid to ask for a blind, so people wouldn't be offended by the request. It didn't seem right that anyone should feel so intimidated or unwelcome.
Bottom line, they are paying members and this is a women's only class, and a blind is a simple request so everyone can participate. So I ask for the blind. No one ask me why and it was installed. Now Muslim women, Pentecostal women, and anyone else can participate. Funny thing is everyone likes the blind. A lot of women feel self conscious in front of men and it gives everyone some privacy.
No one knows it was me who asked, and I hope no one ever does. What I hope for, is that people can develop respect and kindness towards each other, no matter what our different beliefs. So to me, learning is understanding and preventing the continuation of misunderstanding and bias.
Unhinged, I would love to learn more about Buddhism, as this is another religion that I know nothing about.
Personally, I am a Christian, but don't belong to a particular denomination. I try to live my life from an ethical framework called Agape love. The best way that I can describe it would be primitive Christianity.
Let me know if anyone decides on the PC. I would love to listen.
Debbie
Ayesha, It seems to me that your idea is really getting some positive attention. I think it is wonderful.
I love this forum and all of the poeple here. Its great to have a place like this where we can share, learn, grow and heal together. Just comforting to know that there are still some good people on this earth that are willing to do thier part to break down the barriers that hold our cultures apart. "We did not inherit this earth from our parents, we are borrowing it from our children" (no idea who the thought came from). I feel that with every step toward knowledge is a step toward peace. I hate believing that wars are started over religion, I hope that they are over missunderstandings that can be settled with open discussions about our differences. Even if it is just a few 'crazy' people on some forum, it is a step in the right direction :)
ITL, is there anything in particular about Buddhism that you're interested in? I am still learning, will take a lifetime for me to learn it all. But, I would be more then happy to share with you. If you have Netflix there is a film that tells the story of the Buddha, with some amazing artwork. The film feels like a fairytale, wonderfully done in my opinion. It is called "The Buddha." This week when I haven't been able to sleep I have put it on and layed back and just listened to the music on it, very relaxing.
I love this forum and all of the poeple here. Its great to have a place like this where we can share, learn, grow and heal together. Just comforting to know that there are still some good people on this earth that are willing to do thier part to break down the barriers that hold our cultures apart. "We did not inherit this earth from our parents, we are borrowing it from our children" (no idea who the thought came from). I feel that with every step toward knowledge is a step toward peace. I hate believing that wars are started over religion, I hope that they are over missunderstandings that can be settled with open discussions about our differences. Even if it is just a few 'crazy' people on some forum, it is a step in the right direction :)
ITL, is there anything in particular about Buddhism that you're interested in? I am still learning, will take a lifetime for me to learn it all. But, I would be more then happy to share with you. If you have Netflix there is a film that tells the story of the Buddha, with some amazing artwork. The film feels like a fairytale, wonderfully done in my opinion. It is called "The Buddha." This week when I haven't been able to sleep I have put it on and layed back and just listened to the music on it, very relaxing.
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