Getting help for yourself is the first thing to do. if you can only talk to your husband and your husband is leaving was threatening you he is not a source of nurturance he is not somebody to go to for answers. that would be a therapist specialist in posttraumatic stress disorder.
I also made a decision recently to help my family. my sister moved in with me with her grandson who was three. his mother had just died and my sister was devastated and terminally ill. My stepdaughter offered to adopt my nephew and she integrated him into her family but when she did she abused him. he was examined by two doctors two therapist and social worker. it was confirmed that he had been abused
I told my wife that her daughter had abused my nephew and she went crazy she got very angry and we felt the house was not safe since my daughter is wrong to violence and we move my sister and my nephew up to my cousins upstatE.
Since I was the one who told all the adults in the family including her husband that she had abused a five-year-old child i thought they would be supportive and try to get some help for her but they didn't they turned against me they shot the messenger while I was out of town I officially reported my stepped on her child protective services and they made an emergency visit to my daughters house The next day the the locks were changed on my house and an order of protection was issued against me. I had to go to court several times to get the order dropped and get back in my house to get some things to take to my cousins 5 hours north. I can no longer live in a house full of hate so I moved in with my cousin but it turns out not only is my sister a person who yells a lot at her grandson my cousin also yells a lot at her son so I'm in a house with two people who are yeller's and I have posttraumatic stress disorder and I can't stand being around people who yell especially if they Yell at me. I got yelled at this morning for putting dishes away because the dishwasher cycle was not complete. the dishes are clean to me the cycle was done what my sister had a fit she wouldn't even let me reset it. she has OCD and she doesn't want anybody to do anything because they can't do it right. I don't want to live here and I can't go back home.
