Hi All

[leftalone]

Hi leftalone here, i'm 14 years old.
I guess i'm looking for a little bit of support, not sure how much i can give back (sorry)
I'm being hurt by my dad.

 

[cherryblossom]

Hello leftalone

Welcome to the forum, and well done on writing an introduction. We are here for you, when you are ready to talk some more.

 

[Lucycat]

Hi Leftalone and welcome,

I hope you find the help and support you need from this forum
Regards
Lucy x

 

[aditi]

Hi Leftalone. Welcome, and I hope you'll find what you need here too.

 

[leftalone]

:wave: Thank you

 

[Mercy]

Dear leftalone,
I'm sad that you are being hurt by your father. You don't deserve hurtful things ever.

You show a lot of courage to come to this forum. That's big!

Most people here understand hard times. It is good for each of us to write out what has happened to us so that we can begin to understand where we hurt and begin to heal. We have a section called Trauma Diaries for member's only. That means that no one can see what you write except other trauma members. No search engine or spybot can read it. You are safe here.

No hurry. You are free to write what you want when you want. We will listen.
I wonder if I understand your pen name correctly. Does it mean I wish he would leave me alone! If I'm wrong please do let me know.

 

[leftalone]

:wave: Mercy.

My name means i'm left alone my mum walked out when i was 10 and left me with my dad. thats when it all started

 

[cherryblossom]

And you still live with your Dad? Do you see your Mum? Any brothers or sisters living with you? What about grandparents?

Sorry to ask all these questions, but you are young, and in need of some help. Is there a family member you can talk to? (only answer what you are comfortable answering - it's your call :))

 

[leftalone]

yes i'm with my dad still. I havent heard from my mum since she left.

 

[Nyx]

Hi, leftalone. Have you tried talking to anyone about what's happening? (beside us, on this forum, of course) Would you like us to direct you to some centers, websites, anything like that? What kind of help do you think we could offer you?

 

[leftalone]

:wave: Nyx

I dont know what i need, i have to look after him some times because he drinks.

 

[Nyx]

Do you live by yourself with him or are there other members of your family? Has your father remarried since your mom left? And I repeat my question, because it's important: have you tried to talk to someone about what's going on?