I would like to let y'all know that the generational cycle of abuse in my family (on both sides) was broken in my generation with my kids. Somehow God enabled me to marry a good man and we are good parents. Our children were not abused. My son is a major in the Kansas National Guard, a helicopter pilot, my daughter is the #1 wealth management Vice President of SunTrust. My youngest had epilepsy and now struggles with mental illness due to brain surgery but they are all healthy.