nursenurse
Diamond Member
I commend you on what you are doing for yourself, JMM, I wish more had your self insight. But you can't romanticize someone else's problems. Love is not enough sometimes. And while you don't necessarily want to let go of someone you love, sometimes you just have to. It is called life.
Keep working on yourself. But realize that you need to do this for yourself, not for anyone else. Staceymarie has said that she has looked at this, and this is not want she wants for herself. So I am not ever going to tell anyone to put on their rose coloured glassIt is clearly a painful process for her. But she does not need a guilt trip for trying to aspire for her hopes and dreams for the future she wants, and that this relationship will likely never provide for her.
I stand by my words and respectfully bow out.
Keep working on yourself. But realize that you need to do this for yourself, not for anyone else. Staceymarie has said that she has looked at this, and this is not want she wants for herself. So I am not ever going to tell anyone to put on their rose coloured glassIt is clearly a painful process for her. But she does not need a guilt trip for trying to aspire for her hopes and dreams for the future she wants, and that this relationship will likely never provide for her.
I stand by my words and respectfully bow out.