Hope, The Great Farce

[Girl3]

My husband went to therapy with me and wanted the psychologist to change me. She finally said she didn't want him coming with me any more.

My husband asked to speak with my psychiatrist. He told my psychiatrist to do whatever needed to be done to change me. My psychiatrist suggested that I might do better with a divorce.

I asked my husband to go to a psychiatrist to evaluate his problems. He got diagnosed with ADHD, Borderline, and Hoarding. So he quit going - because he doesn't believe he has any problems.

So - I found support with a trusted set of friends, my primary care doc and my psychiatrist. I might do better with spousectomy, but it isn't in my cards right now.

Do what you need to get support, document things in case you need a divorce, do everything you can to be healthy. Peace be with you.

 

[Auroch]

Been through it man. Life goes on. I really didn't think it would there for a bit, but a year later, here I am. Stay strong, stay focused. Do what you have to do, even if it's putting one foot in front of the other while you figure out what your next move is.

 

[The Albatross]

Very sorry your going through this Zipperhead. Hope that she can see that family and marital relationships are a dynamic between people... not only one person has problems or needs support.