angelsarah
New Here
Well, here it goes. I am in desperation of hope and help from this nightmare.
I started a new job, finally making good money, and I got a new supervisor, that moved here from New York. He started right away telling me things that made me uncomfortable, such as, asking me if I am single, where my family is, and he is just a rude person. He has over 40 complaints from customers, and said inappropriate things to me in front of customers. I did not like being around him much. I did joke around with him, in txt messages, just because that is how he talked to me, and I never thought that he would ever ask me for sex. he is married ,and my supervisor.
I now know why he would also be very manipulative, asking me to call him after work, asking me to txt him this or that, because he was planning this all along. He asked me to get into his van, during working hours, and told me he wanted to have sex with me, and what I thought of that. I told him I didn't think it was a good idea. He kept trying to convince me that it was a good idea. I gave him many reasons why I didn't want to . He drove me by an alley and said, I should just take you back there and rape you and kill you, or just rape you and cut your tongue out. Umm, this really scared me. He took me to a parking lot, and started touching me, and demanded I go in the back of the van with him. I did, and was still in shock, and he kept touching me. I told him touching was ok, because I didn't want it to go further, and I was scared. He kept telling me how he wanted to f*ck me, and I told him we cant, and no, he still climbed on top of me, and had sex with me. this is a long story, so I will just summarize. he then told me that I had to swear on my little girls life, I would never tell anyone.
I was seriously scared of this guy, and still am. I went to work, for another week, pretending like I was not going to tell anyone, in fear of him seriously killing me. He was very scary to be around, and sent txts from my phone to his. He demanded sex from me, two more times. After this, I finally had to do something. I went to HR, and they did nothing to protect me, they didn't get my evidence, they didn't want me telling anyone, well, I quit, and he is still working there. I then went to the police, and told them everything. I gave them what evidence I had. (my supervisor said we never even had sex). I had my underwear from the last time we had sex, and I pray it has his DNA on it! He did not climax inside me, so I am not sure how these things work, or if it will show his DNA, but if it does, at least that shows that he lied about us having sex. I have been seriously freaking out over this.
I have bad depression insomnia, flashbacks, bad, bad anxiety. I feel guilty for not going to the police sooner, and, I felt guilty for the whole thing! I am nervous, because now, I am hoping that there will be enough evidence to make this guy found guilty. I do not want him living by me, he needs to move back to NYC, and I do not want him doing this to anyone else. He has ruined my life. I don't even feel normal leaving my house now. I have anxiety attacks in public. At least he has over 40 customer complaints, and I do have statements from customers where he said inappropriate things to me, in front of them, and I do have my underwear as evidence. I also got a DVD from the casino parking lot, where he took me, during working hours, and you cant really see inside the van, but at least it shows his van, there, and the date and time, a half hour, or so. I think you can even see both of us in the front, if its zoomed in.
I guess I just needed to tell someone, and ask for hope, and to see if anyone here thinks that I have enough evidence to put this guy away. I have no criminal record, and, Joe obviously lied about us even having sex, s I would think that would discredit him. I don't know. I don't have a criminal mind, like he does, and I don't know much about court cases. I am suing him, and the company. Here I am a single mother, unemployed, broke, going against a monster, and a super rich company. I need serious prayers and answers. Thanks much . PS~ I am new here, and I wasn't sure who to put for recipients? I thought that I just would post this somewhere, but I don't see how to do that?
I started a new job, finally making good money, and I got a new supervisor, that moved here from New York. He started right away telling me things that made me uncomfortable, such as, asking me if I am single, where my family is, and he is just a rude person. He has over 40 complaints from customers, and said inappropriate things to me in front of customers. I did not like being around him much. I did joke around with him, in txt messages, just because that is how he talked to me, and I never thought that he would ever ask me for sex. he is married ,and my supervisor.
I now know why he would also be very manipulative, asking me to call him after work, asking me to txt him this or that, because he was planning this all along. He asked me to get into his van, during working hours, and told me he wanted to have sex with me, and what I thought of that. I told him I didn't think it was a good idea. He kept trying to convince me that it was a good idea. I gave him many reasons why I didn't want to . He drove me by an alley and said, I should just take you back there and rape you and kill you, or just rape you and cut your tongue out. Umm, this really scared me. He took me to a parking lot, and started touching me, and demanded I go in the back of the van with him. I did, and was still in shock, and he kept touching me. I told him touching was ok, because I didn't want it to go further, and I was scared. He kept telling me how he wanted to f*ck me, and I told him we cant, and no, he still climbed on top of me, and had sex with me. this is a long story, so I will just summarize. he then told me that I had to swear on my little girls life, I would never tell anyone.
I was seriously scared of this guy, and still am. I went to work, for another week, pretending like I was not going to tell anyone, in fear of him seriously killing me. He was very scary to be around, and sent txts from my phone to his. He demanded sex from me, two more times. After this, I finally had to do something. I went to HR, and they did nothing to protect me, they didn't get my evidence, they didn't want me telling anyone, well, I quit, and he is still working there. I then went to the police, and told them everything. I gave them what evidence I had. (my supervisor said we never even had sex). I had my underwear from the last time we had sex, and I pray it has his DNA on it! He did not climax inside me, so I am not sure how these things work, or if it will show his DNA, but if it does, at least that shows that he lied about us having sex. I have been seriously freaking out over this.
I have bad depression insomnia, flashbacks, bad, bad anxiety. I feel guilty for not going to the police sooner, and, I felt guilty for the whole thing! I am nervous, because now, I am hoping that there will be enough evidence to make this guy found guilty. I do not want him living by me, he needs to move back to NYC, and I do not want him doing this to anyone else. He has ruined my life. I don't even feel normal leaving my house now. I have anxiety attacks in public. At least he has over 40 customer complaints, and I do have statements from customers where he said inappropriate things to me, in front of them, and I do have my underwear as evidence. I also got a DVD from the casino parking lot, where he took me, during working hours, and you cant really see inside the van, but at least it shows his van, there, and the date and time, a half hour, or so. I think you can even see both of us in the front, if its zoomed in.
I guess I just needed to tell someone, and ask for hope, and to see if anyone here thinks that I have enough evidence to put this guy away. I have no criminal record, and, Joe obviously lied about us even having sex, s I would think that would discredit him. I don't know. I don't have a criminal mind, like he does, and I don't know much about court cases. I am suing him, and the company. Here I am a single mother, unemployed, broke, going against a monster, and a super rich company. I need serious prayers and answers. Thanks much . PS~ I am new here, and I wasn't sure who to put for recipients? I thought that I just would post this somewhere, but I don't see how to do that?
