I Am Selfish & I Hate It

[freakofnurture]

What's selfish about being scared to lose your wits and hurt yourself?

 

[bittersweet]

What's selfish about being scared to lose your wits and hurt yourself?

I feel selfish for not wanting him to go even though this will be a great thing for his career. It just seems like I am only thinking of myself and not him...maybe I'm wrong for thinking this way but it certainly makes me feel selfish.

 

[kimba]

There is something about the holidays this year that has me longing to get on touch with people from the past I have let go due to isolating myself. Also I have no real family left so... There is one person who knows alot about my past and would be very forgiving of me for losing touch that I did send a card to and we will see what happens. Is there anyone you haven't spoken to or seen in a while you may want to reconnect with even briefly? A phone call or a "coffee visit" could jump start an old friendship.

 

[bittersweet]

That's a good idea but unfortunately the only people I've lost touch with all hate me because I married a non-Irish, Jewish man. And those people I'm glad I don't speak with if they want to think like that.