Supporter I Don't Know What Else To Do.

[Liza975]

Hi, I'm new here just trying to understand all I can about PTSD.

I'm living with a guy who has PTSD and I'm just lost as to what to do next. He sees a therapist through the VA and seems to realize whats wrong but its like he just don't care. He says his feelings are numb. Every time we have a disagreement about anything he wants to leave. He gets very upset with me because of what other people do. He keeps telling me he loves me, but turns around and tells me he wants me to hate him. He keeps asking why I love him.

I want to make it work with him. I'm easy to spend my life with him but I'm so afraid of getting hurt. I want to be supportive and help but he pushes me away. I feel like he just don't care about our relationship or me most of the time. I need advice, please help.

 

[Jacnic]

Welcome to the Forum, Liza!

 

[KP the nut]

Hi Liza and welcome to the forum.

There is plenty of good information and support here, especially in the Supporters section.

 

[MoeX]

Hello Liza,

I'm new here also. I have looked around at different forums and so far this has been the most helpful. I hope you find what you need and if you just want to vent PM me. :)

 

[intothelight]

Hi Liza,

Welcome to the PTSD Forum!

The Supporter section is a great place to start, as many members find themselves totally unsure of how to handle a relationship with a person that has PTSD. The members here really do understand.

Take care.

Debbie

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

Welcome to the forum.