Inkedscorpio29
New Here
Just throwing in my female perspective/opinion on this. I'm not going to lie and say that people don't notice looks on others because truthfully the 1st thing anyone sees about another person is their looks before you get the chance to find out about them, the real them behind the looks.
I can read people like a book within the 1st few minutes of meeting them. I see them in their physical sense, but the minute I start listening to them & feeling out who they are I then make up my mind about them. I think most women honestly can sense the BS out of anyone , and it's a huge turn off if I (we) think a guy is conceited regardless of his outward appearance. (At least for me)
You could be the hottest guy in the world, but if you exhibit any traits that make me think you think you are the most wonderful person on earth it makes your outward appearance decrease tremendously to match your inward self. You could be a less attractive person on the outside , but once I see/hear you that you have an awesome inward self it ups your outward appearance to be X a million, and you become the hottest guy I've ever seen.
Also you could have a great appearance & personality, but the minute a guy makes references to anything serially related even if they aren't talking about me then it instantly is a immediate turn off to me because then that's all I think your really thinking about from that point on even if you arent, and I just can't get it out of my head that you're more into me in a physical mindset than you are about caring to find out who I truly am as a person.
As the saying goes "Beauty fades but a soul always remains beautiful no matter its age" really is true, again at least in my book. I'm way more interested in a person's true charachter than I am to their physical appearance. A guys charachter/personality is the only thing I take into consideration when I make up my mind about them regardless if I'm interested in them or not.
I'd suggest working on yourself first so that you can achieve true happiness deep in yourself first then proceeding forward in finding a true mate for yourself. If we aren't happy with ourselves truly then we'll never truly be able to make another person happy. I'd suggest writing down on paper a list of traits that you'd like to find in someone so that you can figure out what you really want in someone no matter what that is.
I wish you the best of luck in your life.
I can read people like a book within the 1st few minutes of meeting them. I see them in their physical sense, but the minute I start listening to them & feeling out who they are I then make up my mind about them. I think most women honestly can sense the BS out of anyone , and it's a huge turn off if I (we) think a guy is conceited regardless of his outward appearance. (At least for me)
You could be the hottest guy in the world, but if you exhibit any traits that make me think you think you are the most wonderful person on earth it makes your outward appearance decrease tremendously to match your inward self. You could be a less attractive person on the outside , but once I see/hear you that you have an awesome inward self it ups your outward appearance to be X a million, and you become the hottest guy I've ever seen.
Also you could have a great appearance & personality, but the minute a guy makes references to anything serially related even if they aren't talking about me then it instantly is a immediate turn off to me because then that's all I think your really thinking about from that point on even if you arent, and I just can't get it out of my head that you're more into me in a physical mindset than you are about caring to find out who I truly am as a person.
As the saying goes "Beauty fades but a soul always remains beautiful no matter its age" really is true, again at least in my book. I'm way more interested in a person's true charachter than I am to their physical appearance. A guys charachter/personality is the only thing I take into consideration when I make up my mind about them regardless if I'm interested in them or not.
I'd suggest working on yourself first so that you can achieve true happiness deep in yourself first then proceeding forward in finding a true mate for yourself. If we aren't happy with ourselves truly then we'll never truly be able to make another person happy. I'd suggest writing down on paper a list of traits that you'd like to find in someone so that you can figure out what you really want in someone no matter what that is.
I wish you the best of luck in your life.
