If I Could I Would..

[Mee]

Give rapists life sentences

Get them charged at all. Make a system that works

Take a way victim blaming and shaming

Find a way to make it emotionally safer for us to report

Feel belonging

Yeah. I guess a lot of that us see above. If we felt ’we belonged’ securely wouldn’t the reporting be easier and the shaming/blaming lesser and of lesser consequence?

Heal

For every one.

My own for me? Undo it all. Every bit of it.

 

[shatter eyes]

Just let myself rot and not care not fight to be better.


But i could not so here i am with a forum of survivors

 

[Teasel]

Just seen a show mention something called a Hofje in Holland. In particular a Hofje for women only. It's a small community I guess or a bit like alms houses maybe that we have in the UK. Anyway I'd like to live in a small community setting like that. You have your own home but amongst other women and with a community garden. I'd like that.

 

[Mee]

I am having one of my ‘want to be bat man days’.

I am guessing this might be a motivation similar to what makes people turn into internet trolls or really dreadful vigilantes. The desire to fight back some way. Keeping it in a fantasy realm is thus helpful:)

 

[Tornadic Thoughts]

If I could, I would learn how to play every musical instrument that exists....and raise the roof every chance I got.

 

[shatter eyes]

If i could put on socks and underwear while standing i would....then i would be so proud i could walk around in socks and undies allday.

If i could cough without peeing myself...that would be awesome.

 

[Angrboda]

If I could I would get a gigantic blank book and something to sketch and take notes with. Then I'd teleport myself to Borneo and not come back until my book was full.

 

[anonymous]

Banish this depression.

 

[anonymous]

Risk believing and trusting.

 

[Teasel]

Know that I'm enough goddamit

 

[Rani G2]

Live on an island/ another planet. Maybe one caretaker who provides me with food and other things I need. I will only communicate through technology. Pfffft...

 

[Teasel]

Fly in the trapeze!