Relationship I'm Damaged, Confused, And Extremely Hurt! Any Insight Please??!?!!!

[She_She worries]

Elric, I feel like we both understand exactly what it feels like because our situations seems quite similar. It's like your dreams have completely been ripped away without reason. I guess a big part of my problem is that I haven't been in a relationship in awhile and I don't easily give that part of myself to someone. For him to come in my life and tell me the things I want to hear....yes it was exciting and I fell in love with that dream.

Even though things changed, I still was in love with that dream and that person he was in the beginning. And it's such a big slap in the face when the person you love is clearly ignoring you, but is active and excited to interact with others....especially on good old facebook. I also try not to go to his page and went as far as taking him out of my newsfeed. It's too difficult reading how happy he is talking to other people, but he refuses to respond to me via text. I deleted all the text messages he sent me and also his phone number so I won't feel the impulse to send him a message or call him. This really helps and I encourage you to do the same thing. And if you need to go ahead and delete her as a friend on facebook then so be it....it's probably the best thing you can do for your own mental health.

 

[She_She worries]

Thank you Amethist! Support is what I'm looking for. I understand that I may never get all the answers I need, but I'm just looking for some closure so I can move on with my life. I believe it's just not healthy for me to be with this man right now anyways. I'm going through some of my own personal issues and I need to focus on myself and my son. I keep reminding myself of what I know I need to do and it's been helping. Also, reading other threads in this forum is extremely helpful. I'm so thankful that we can all discuss what we go through and find some relief here!