I’ve been spending days hesitating writing this. It’s not that I can’t find the words, it’s where do I start. There are so many points to my story where some of which have materialized decades later, it’s these facts coupled with my childhood memories that have started to terrorize me day after day, night after night. They say the mind never forgets, it’s true. You may have forgotten those events but like in my case, years later, things happen that triggered the resurfacing of memories. This initially allowed me to piece together my medical history in full giving me answers to why I’ve had psychological issues from aged 12, why I was left with one functioning ear and one suffering with chronic ear infections, why I ended up in a wheelchair recently aged 50 and why I had trouble sleeping from again aged 12. I was labelled as crazy by my parents and siblings, berated and mocked everyday and then when I started to work, my father and mother fought to control and use my salary for their own benefit. I struggled with sleep.
I discovered two years ago that my parents failed to take me to hospital which allowed an ear infection to reach my brain leading to personality changing brain damage, this led to me having an anaphylactic shock to anesthetic where it took twenty minutes to revive me using four adrenalin shots. They ignored the food additive warnings which destroyed my immune system which then destroyed my joints. They then cancel my treatment destroying any chance of normal hearing. They cancel my psychological reviews post the two brain injuries. They then ignore the pleas from school whom were alarmed by the change in my behavior, school was also contacted by Hospital post my non-shows. By the way, I live in UK where healthcare is provided free of charge.
Most shockingly, after growing up I was approaching my GP’s with symptoms which they never could explain. Two GP surgery’s, a dermatologist and my local Hospital had somehow not communicated with each other that I had been in and out of Hospital from aged 12, that I had two brain injuries, that I had severe allergies!! It’s incredible, we have one of the most advanced healthcare systems in the world.
It showed that my parents broke Children Act repeatedly with my health. This was my parents whom always told us that we had the best life, they were the best parents, and other parents do not bend over backwards like they do. Growing up I kind of knew my parents whom both never got on had their own agenda. I could see how other families operated but I never gave it much thought until my health started to fail bit by bit where every issue was to be traced back to when I was at school.
My parent’s decisions not only caused me brain damage twice when I was aged 12 then 13, they destroyed my natural hearing and ignored life threatening allergies confirmed by my hospital when I was 12. I started to become aware of this aged 46 with the full picture not known until I requested my hospital records aged 52, this was when the allergies destroyed my immune system which then attacked all my joints leading me to a wheelchair.
I’m 53 now and lost the ability to walk at 50, I struggled with my hearing from a young age which was corrected decades later at the age of 46 by way of new technology.
I’m one of five siblings, us three boys and two sisters, I sit in the middle and was labeled as mad and crazy from aged 12 by both my parents and siblings.
I think for now, that’s enough information to give you an idea. Right now, I’m finding much relief just by reading your posts, realizing I’m not alone. It’s also made me realize that no matter how bad you think your life has been, there are others in far worse state than myself. I want to reach out to these folks, I want to learn about how they manage, I want to share my tips.
Thank you for reading and I look forward to using this platform.
I discovered two years ago that my parents failed to take me to hospital which allowed an ear infection to reach my brain leading to personality changing brain damage, this led to me having an anaphylactic shock to anesthetic where it took twenty minutes to revive me using four adrenalin shots. They ignored the food additive warnings which destroyed my immune system which then destroyed my joints. They then cancel my treatment destroying any chance of normal hearing. They cancel my psychological reviews post the two brain injuries. They then ignore the pleas from school whom were alarmed by the change in my behavior, school was also contacted by Hospital post my non-shows. By the way, I live in UK where healthcare is provided free of charge.
Most shockingly, after growing up I was approaching my GP’s with symptoms which they never could explain. Two GP surgery’s, a dermatologist and my local Hospital had somehow not communicated with each other that I had been in and out of Hospital from aged 12, that I had two brain injuries, that I had severe allergies!! It’s incredible, we have one of the most advanced healthcare systems in the world.
It showed that my parents broke Children Act repeatedly with my health. This was my parents whom always told us that we had the best life, they were the best parents, and other parents do not bend over backwards like they do. Growing up I kind of knew my parents whom both never got on had their own agenda. I could see how other families operated but I never gave it much thought until my health started to fail bit by bit where every issue was to be traced back to when I was at school.
My parent’s decisions not only caused me brain damage twice when I was aged 12 then 13, they destroyed my natural hearing and ignored life threatening allergies confirmed by my hospital when I was 12. I started to become aware of this aged 46 with the full picture not known until I requested my hospital records aged 52, this was when the allergies destroyed my immune system which then attacked all my joints leading me to a wheelchair.
I’m 53 now and lost the ability to walk at 50, I struggled with my hearing from a young age which was corrected decades later at the age of 46 by way of new technology.
I’m one of five siblings, us three boys and two sisters, I sit in the middle and was labeled as mad and crazy from aged 12 by both my parents and siblings.
I think for now, that’s enough information to give you an idea. Right now, I’m finding much relief just by reading your posts, realizing I’m not alone. It’s also made me realize that no matter how bad you think your life has been, there are others in far worse state than myself. I want to reach out to these folks, I want to learn about how they manage, I want to share my tips.
Thank you for reading and I look forward to using this platform.
