I'm Upset About My BF's Mom's Death

[jefferylee]

Hi Sigh,

First, my condolences for your BF's loss of his mother.

Secondly,since you've been here on the forum for less than a month but have already written over 80 posts,perhaps it would be helpful (and healthy) to try turning off your computer for a change and go out and take a walk around in the real world.

Being out in nature has always been very soothing for me when I get too upset to deal with things and is always a way for me to get myaself centered and calmed down,back on an even keel...good luck!

Peace and Hope...jefferylee

 

[sigh]

lol Jeffery.

You must also remember that I've had mono all summer and my boyfriend contracted scabies from his mother. Sitting at home on the computer has been my one activity (I hate watching TV). My kitten is still in utero. I was going to go visit with my brother and his family, but the mono killed that one. I cannot visit my grandmother. I cannot go to the art studio. I write, but don't post it here.

I am planning on learning to dive. Once the check comes in!!! (it's about $3-400 start-up.) Ocean, take me.

I have also been desperate for an outlet. The therapist I did have violated some very specific APA rules and I must report him. Now, I must find another.

My bf had her cremated. We are planning a ceremony with bf's brother, children, ex-wife, ex-wife's husband and priest (they are very Catholic). This ceremony will be in December.

I feel better.