In Pain From Loosing My Friend And Therapy Horse

[KP the nut]

((((PH))))

Nothing can be said to take the pain away. Please remember sweetheart, that there are lots here you understand your pain and feel it with you. I know how I felt when I had to say goodbye to my old boy, he was cremated and is in my garden, I always talk to him still.

I now have other dogs, they are not a replacement, I love them but they are different. One of my dogs now reads how I am feeling and pulls me back.

You will always remember Kaimana, she will always be a part of your life. The pain will become easier over time, but remember you are mourning the loss of a loved one.

Thinking of you
KP

 

[Deleted member 6617]

I have been so busy with the move and unpacking and all I did not allow myself time to mourn. Now that things have settled it is hitting me in waves and I can't seem to stop the tears. I know it will get easier. I know this is a necessary part of healing. She really was family. Can't see through the tears....sadness overwhelms me. Miss my beautiful girl.

 

[Reclusive]

Be with your sadness and know it well. Know that it is part of a gift you were given. Don't shove it aside or belittle it's importance. Grief is something never to be made light of. She is part of you, and she always will be.

 

[KP the nut]

(((PH))) Take your time, you were very lucky to have met one another. You both gave each other a lot of love and understanding.
With you in your pain
KP

 

[Lil Red Robin Hood]

((((Pottershand))))

Reading your posts right now and crying. So hard to loose a pet, a member of your family. I know she is happy where she is, I wish there was a way to take away your pain. I know maybe that isn't right, to grieve is important in order to heal. Holding you in my heart and prayers tonight.

Big bear hugs,
Robin

 

[Froggie]

Every tear is a prayer, in your case ... it is a proof of the love you had for your wonderful horse (sorry, can't remember how to write her name). Some animals are a sort of soul mates that we can never forget and are loved way beyond their departure. She is one of them. ((((PH))))

 

[Gloria]

PH,
I just saw my mare running with her tail up and neck arched. I thanked God for giving me another day with her. The geldings have spring fever. I thought of you....... I really feel for you.
Thinking of you,
Gloria

 

[Deleted member 6617]

PH,
I just saw my mare running with her tail up and neck arched.

Oh...that puts so many pictures in my mind. Those Arabs and their flags in the air and the arched neck. I can see her running and blowing and turning on a dime. So athletic and graceful and beautiful. Her flaxen mane and tail flying. Thank you for reminding me of those scenes. Nothing in the world like it...makes my spirit soar with hers.

 

[Tinyflame]

There's a quote in Shadowlands, (forgive me if I'm paraphrasing), "The pain now is part of the joy, then; that's the deal". You only have such grief because you shared such love, Reclusive is right, you are and will always be a part of each other.
((((PH))))