Incapable Of Reaching Orgasm From Sex

[Deleted member 28403]

Well, I think it might be more helpful for you to try to find good stuff about yourself, because there sure is a lot, but you might be a bit blind to it

 

[EveHarrington]

I guess even the most bad/evil people have good qualities but I don't think it's healthy to be in a relationship with these kinds of people.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Well, I recommend to start a bit of a thread on recognizing good qualities of yourself

 

[shimmerz]

Even my psychiatrist says I will never be a functional person.

Speaking of dicks...... this guy should be certified. Don't you believe him for an instant! That is bullshit!

I have some ideas for you. Not really big on posting them. PM me if you like.

This isn't as bad as you think it is.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Sure, gonna PM

 

[Friday]

Don't you believe him for an instant!

Strongly seconding.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

:hug: Thanks

 

[quadratus]

i have learned this is a common trauma symptom, that trauma desensitizes the body. Our brain does not register sensation as it should. Good news is it is treatable. see Somatic experiencing, SE.

 

[Deleted member 541]

Ok, so I am a female and I can honestly say that I totally understand your issue. Totally, because NEVER in my almost 63 yrs have I ever climaxed during intercourse. NEVER!!! It's the most frustrating, most annoying thing I've ever experienced. I get right to the second before(I think) and then NOTHING. Absolutely nothing....

Masturbation, yes! Intercourse, NO!!!! One of the reasons I don't date anymore, it just got way to frustrating, and I got tired of faking it for their sake.

 

[quadratus]

Ok, so I am a female and I can honestly say that I totally understand your issue. Totally, because NEVER...

Liz Koch, "the psoas book", talks about this issue with respect to a healthy psoas. Unhealthy psoas is part of trauma. For reference.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Will look up the treatment and see what I can do to help myself, thanks

 

[Deleted member 28403]

Coming back to this thread, gotten a bit better, but still thinking about it