It's Hard Waiting It Out

[Raven]

I don't consider him going to her house once in an attempt to get closure as stalking, as long as he leaves if and when she tells him to. If he does it repeatedly then it's stalking.

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

Thanks raven

 

[dutchiedelta]

If and when she likes leaving the place. Very true.
Just not sure if he can hold it together after what happened before.
Or if J feels safe enough to see you after what happened in the hotelroom.
Hence my hesitation.

That's pretty much it. You scared the crap out of her recently and no clue if its way too soon to go near her when she clearly avoids you.

 

[Raven]

I still don't know what happened in the hotel room. Thomas got a sketchy text that may or may not have been from an ex girlfriend? I'm not really sure what started that argument in the first place.

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

I understand. If she would just email me. Give me closure. See I rescued 5 kittens at my old job. She still has two of them. I would like to see them. Maybe I am just being to pushy. I do love her. This really hurts.

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

I lied and told her I didn't know without checking it out. I didn't want the crap that comes to haunt me ruin the weekend. I shouldn't even had brought my phone. I wasn't going to. I wish I could redo so many things.

 

[dutchiedelta]

Raven, the hotelroom incident would make most women run for divorve.
That is why J is now stonewalling him cos she's scared shitless of him probably. This is not an average argument.

 

[Raven]

I went back to check the thread about the hotel room. I completely forgot about things getting physical. It's unsurprising that she's frightened.

I think I trivialized the violence because it's a trait I've tolerated and forgiven in my own husband.

It just seems like the whole fight stemmed from something really petty and insignificant (a text). But escalation is something we deal with more often than we'd like, I guess.

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

Ritchie and Raven. I drove to a place very near her house and sent a message for her to meet me in a public place or call me. I hope I am doing right. I am so nervous. I don't think she will show. She doesn't have it in her.

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

Dutchie

 

[dutchiedelta]

Hope she comes out for a talk. If only for her to feel better.
Fingers crossed there Thomas.

 

[thomas.robinson.54966]

Thanks