I have a candle burning for your healing.
I'm so pleased you have friends who are helping you out. As for tidying before the cleaner comes :hilarious:, but I know what you mean. Don't worry about it, I'm sure she has seen much worse. I class my house as dirty clean as opposed to dirty. A dirty house is ground in grime, smelly and unloved, a 'dirty clean' house has dust and is untidy but nothing deep. Does that make sense or am I just a lazy housewife?
I hope both the chiropractor and acupuncturist work their magic but have you thought about seeing someone for your mental well-being. If you can afford it, maybe have a hand or neck massage or even both. Something with nice scented healing oils to give you a gentle lift.
(((HUGS)))