Me And My Cancer Adventure

[The Albatross]

Dear Froggie, I hear you loud and clear, all I got is some stupid parenthesis for a hug, but it really is a genuine hug (((Deb is right... and while it is okay to acknowledge the thoughts about mortality, please remember that prognosises are guesswork at best and that the human spirit can at times trump all)))

That was a lot to put into one hug. But no kidding... I've seen many amazing things... my own aunt outlived her "prognosis" by 11-13 YEARS... in the end, we can't know. Praying for some peace for you today gal and that you're bloodwork continues to come in well.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

(((Froggie))) I am thinking of you and sending you healing energy. I am glad you are planning a party. Can I come? I agree with Deb. Make everyday a celebration. I will do that too. Big hugs.

 

[KP the nut]

((((Froggie)))))

Party, wine and chocolates - KPs favourite things. We will have an amazing party.

 

[You can get through it]

Froggie

While it is true statistics that have been properly collected provide a realistic picture, they can also go out of date. For me the statistics were useful in so much as putting my affairs in order, from that point onwards they were useless because from my own perspective I was a statistic of one with every chance of making it through; which is the same for you. We are not physically influenced by the journeys of others except by way of inspiration of those who triumph. I wish I could convince everyone here that overcoming PTSD will give you the strength to face anything life can throw at you; even cancer. I have reached this conclusion, and feel this may ultimately be your own experience. The road we both travel is at times is a lonely one and many may not understand the significance of the milestones reached, however each one reached takes us further away from the darkness.

Keep hope and your path will stay lit,

Steve

 

[BigBear]

I'm going to go ahead and book my reservations. That's how sure I am that we'll be parting!

Bear

 

[BloomInWinter]

(((((Froggie))))))

I find I can't read much of yours and Deb's diaries without becoming lost in the undealt with stuff from my Mom's and Dad's deaths.

But I do thing about you both frequently and drop in to see how you are doing.

Your journey has given me such hope and kept me from sinking. I do hope this next year brings great news, joy, and the beginning of many more journeys, my friend.

 

[Tinyflame]

Yes Froggie, I agree with Bloom.

And wanting to be here means a lot.

I have had (at least) 6 relatives that exceeded their 'prognosis' by 20 years, 10 years, (with the cancer not eliminated), and 19 and 16 years with the cancer gone (thus far) though they were both terminal (technically).
Not that I can imagine the struggle, but they've come out of it better and happier than before, on the other side. Even when there were second occurences, and things were very grim.

You have many many prayers 'out here'- every day, for your strength, healing, happiness, treatments, and peace of mind, also, and for your family. And good as the Dr's are, more help than 'just' them.

(((((Super Big Hug)))), to you. :inlove:

 

[Froggie]

Thank you so much everyone for your insight and feedbacks. That would be great having a party with all of you for my 2 year mark. It is true that it's just pronostics, but they can sometimes give the willies especially when PTSD has a grip on my life. So there are times I feel really vulnerable. As I was feeling for the past couple of weeks. Next trigger is on Tuesday, 1 year since the operation, 1 year with a stoma, 1 year of inner and outer changes, getting things (and still getting) things in order.

My daughter and son-in-law didn't leave me alone today (June 3rd) and kept me busy most of the day. They also had me over for supper and I bought a watermelon to everyone's delight .... yummmm slurp slurp:D . My daughter has a real knack in choising the sweet juicy ones !:tup:

 

[LawPhotos]

When I get to that 2 year point, I want a party with wine and goodies to celebrate.

I'll be there!!! Well, that is IF I am invited!!

 

[Froggie]

You're all invited :D

 

[Ice_Fire]

(((Froggie))) As others have said, the prognosis statistics are a guide. I also know people who have survived far beyond what the doctors said, one overcame 'terminal' illness and is now celebrating her 90th! I'm looking forward to this party!!

 

[^^FlyingSolo^^]

((((((((Froggie))))))))) Thank you for the invite. :)

I'll be there with bells on!

Hugs, hugs, hugs,

solo