Me And My Cancer Adventure

[intothelight]

(((Froggie)))

Steve has some really good words of advice. Having everything planned as best as possible and making your wishes known can be a huge relief. I am meeting with an attorney this week to draw up the necessary papers, so that I don't have to worry about what will or will not be done.

I understand the fear, as I am not afraid of dying, but more afraid of how I will die. I don't want to hurt anyone or be a burden; and I too am most afraid of how the PTSD will affect me through treatment and ultimately my own death.

Set the plans in place that you feel you need to and then go about the business of living each day to its fullest.

Deb

 

[You can get through it]

Deb

You will find a way to cope as we are stronger than we sometimes give ourselves credit for. Taking the course of action you are may give back some control under situations that seem at times to be uncontrollable.

Keep up the good fight,

Steve

 

[KP the nut]

(((Froggie))), Steve and Deb have given great advice. I'm sorry I have no wise words of wisdom but know for sure that you are in my thoughts and a candle is burning.

 

[You can get through it]

((KP))

Just you being around to give your time to moderate and support everyone is enough, we should not lose sight of the fact that everyone here is battleing with their own condition and your support is appreciated.

Steve

 

[BigBear]

Froggie,

I've experienced several deaths recently. What I've seen tells me this. Death accentuates what you are not what you are not. Frustrated spiteful people become more frustrated and spiteful. Good hearted people are greatful and loving to those who are there for them at their death.

You have nothing to worry about. You are among the good hearted.

Besides, that's a long way away for you.

Bear

 

[Deleted member 6617]

Froggie I so wish I could be there for you the way I can be for Deb. I am so sorry to hear of your struggles. I see Deb planning and preparing and how hard it is, but also how it really does seem to lift her burden a bit. I hope you find that to be true as well.

As always, sending my love, hope, best wishes, and prayers to both you and Deb. :hug:

 

[Froggie]

If you keep worrying about your future you are mourning away the present and right know you are enjoying a good quality of life so there is no reason why this should not continue.

It does bring it home when we see others suffering, but we all have our own unique journey to follow. As in any illness it can bring out the best and the worst in all of us which does not make us good or bad people, just human.

Concentrate on planning your Christmas; it will be a good one,

Steve

Thank you for your wisedom Steve, I feel better today. I spent time on the phone with a friend who is out of region and she helped me through this. I was still tired from my blocage experience and this brought back some eurk feelings which played into my PTSD. Domino reaction, too much to handle in one day sort of thing.

Thanks so much for being there.

Froggie

 

[Deleted member 12723]

(((Froggie))) thinking of you and you are in my prayers for some good relief. Big hugs.

 

[KP the nut]

(((Froggie))), just think of the surprise you will get when Crafty Cath and I win the lottery and visit you on our world tour :eek:.

Candle is burning my friend.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

((((((((((((((Froggie)))))))))))))))))) Thinking of you. I miss you. I hope all is well as can be, biig hugs,

 

[Froggie]

(((Froggie))), just think of the surprise you will get when Crafty Cath and I win the lottery and visit you on our world tour :eek:.

Candle is burning my friend.

You'll both be more than welcomed ! :D:happy:

 

[Nighthawk]

(((((Froggie)))))

I find it honorable and and caring that you would speak so openly with your children and ask for their help. T

Honored to be a part of your journey.