Never accept the blame for evils others do.
It's not your fault you -or anyone else- were raped.
Consider it like this; If I'm in a bank that is being robbed, is it my fault when the bank robbers rob another bank? No. It's not. It's the bank robbers fault. What about the bank itself? Is it their fault they got robbed? Nope. Even if they didn't trip the silent alarm to call the police, so the robbers got away with it??? Nope. Still not the bank's fault. Still the robbers fault. Whether they get caught or not, they're the ones robbing the bank. But what about the next bank? Is it the first bank's fault the bank robbers robbed the next bank, because they didn't trip the silent alarm and get the police there in time to catch them? :confused: See where this is going? Being the victim of a crime doesn't make you responsible for that crime, nor any other crimes to follow.