Relationship Moving On From Being Pushed Away

[Deleted member 33287]

I have come to the conclusion I have been pushed away and nothing in the world I can do to change the situation. What have you guys done or used to cope with being pushed away

 

[BrokenWoman]

I'm sorry I know how that feels. Currently my suffered has my head SO messed up! He went from telling me I am everything he ever hoped for in a woman last week to last night telling me very bluntly "I can NOT give you what you need". I feel like a fool currently:(

 

[Deleted member 33287]

Here for you fam.

I finally woke today and just ready to move on. I am sick of the anger, depression, frustration, anxiety and guilt it gave me. I realized how close I am to hurting/getting hurt that I need to change.

 

[BrokenWoman]

I've stood by his side for 3 years and 7 months and yes I guess like a lot here we are exclusive as we don't sleep with other people or date other people but we aren't in a defined relationship even though it's always just felt that way. So yeah I feel a little stupid, hurt,angry, emotional. It's my own fault. He told me last night "We are NOT in a relationship like you think we are"...BIG SLAP in the face. We have talked about our future many many times.

I can sympathize with your feelings for sure. I can't deny this "thing" with him has had some bad effects on me.

 

[BrokenWoman]

How long since you talked to him?

 

[Deleted member 33287]

I'm a guy and her.
4-5 months. I have been dragged through hell. February 6 is the day she told me she got raped or the day I lost my best friend.

Last Saturday met her boyfriend and was going to explode. She couldn't even have a 5 minute conversation with me and that's when I realized need to seek a therapist

 

[BrokenWoman]

Wow! I am so sorry. It seems like she may have already moved on. Maybe it's time you try and do the same? Seems like your so miserable. Perhaps take time to grieve the relationship and focus on you! New people come in and out of our lives all the time. I'm sure you'll meet someone great!!

 

[Deleted member 33287]

I am ready to move on. I'm glad she has a boyfriend because I don't want to make the commitment to her unless I'm getting married.

I don't understand how we could tell each other anything to her pushing me away. Just miss having her as a friend.