My cat died

[Chem Lady]

I put this in relationships because my cat was my best buddy and now he's gone. We got our cat when I was a year into undiagnosed PTSD and I was really struggling with sleep. I was awake all night with awful panic/anxiety and then I'd sleep a little in the day. I had trouble getting out of the house and the fatigue and lack of motivation were so bad that I could often just barely get myself to shower each day.
Then we got our sweet little buddy and he was a constant source of cuddles and entertainment. There were several years of my life where he was the only reason I ever smiled or felt happy.
People have been a source of stress and upset for the most part, but my cat was unconditionally loving, and his presence provided the most security I've ever had.
He developed kidney disease last November (stage 4) and we found a product which allowed him to feel well and function normally for another ten months. I'm so happy I had that extra time with him. He's been gone three and a half weeks now and I still miss him so desperately. I miss his cuddles and his friendship.
Thanks for listening.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I'm so happy I had that extra time with him. He's been gone three and a half weeks now and I still miss him so desperately. I miss his cuddles and his friendship.
Thanks for listening.

I am so sorry to hear that you have lost your precious companion. There are some animals that I have lost over the years and still miss them. There is nothing like the unconditional love of a beloved pet. I hope that you will heal as soon as possible and maybe consider getting a new kitten and starting over.:hug:

 

[hodge]

I'm so sorry for your loss, @Chem Lady. In my life I've lost three beloved cats and my dog. They were my furbabies and non-human support system. We display photos of them in our living room. We have one photo album devoted to them and their sweet interactions.

 

[Supervixn]

What a good boy... he came here to do what he was meant to do. I believe we will see our furry friends again on the otherside. I'm so sorry for your loss, but it sounds like he was very loved and cared for.

 

[The Albatross]

Very glad that you had an extra 10 months with your fuzzy friend and I hope that in time your heart and home will be open to receive another. I've heard it said it's recommended to wait for 6 months... but in our home an animal in need would show up just before or after the loss of an ill or oldster animal friend. Sincere condolences for your loss Chem Lady.

 

[Renew]

@Chem Lady I am just now seeing this honey. I am so sorry for your loss. Our pets are our babies. Our furbabies. They make us humans feel good about ourselves. They bring comfort and love into our lives and help us to feel not alone. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for comfort and peace for you. ((((HUGS))))

 

[Kopykat]

@Chem Lady im so sorry to hear about your loss

 

[Tinyflame]

I'm so sorry for you @Chem Lady . :( :cry: :hug::hug::hug:

 

[whiteraven]

Oh, so sorry @Chem Lady . My two kitties are my world. Cats are the best friends and cuddlers. I'm glad you got that extra time with yours.

 

[mamachick]

Im so sorry Chem Lady. Our pets are our best friends so often.

 

[Chem Lady]

Thank you so much for your compassion, everyone. Somehow it helps when others care or are sad with you. It doesn't replace my buddy or even make me less sad, but it comforts me.

 

[Cannottakethis]

@Chem Lady im so sorry for your loss. My cats are my longest relationship for sure and the closest thing to children I'll ever have. I know it hurts and at some point it will hurt less.
:cry::cry::cry::hug::hug::hug: