My Daughter Got Beat Up By Her Husband Last Night While She Was Asleep

[JustBe]

Keep up the good work Gizmo and remember to take care of YOU too :hug:

 

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Awwwwwwwwwwww anni so sorry you have to deal with such a toxic relative playing sadistic and cruel mind games with your mom. My family tree is full of toxic people and I do not have much to do with them anymore and it is sad and tragic but does wonders for my my well being.

I have good news, my stepdaughter and her wonderful husband are moving in with my daughter. With my daughters husband out of the way, I got my daughter and the girls back in our life. I talk to her once a day on the phone. The stress lines are out of her face and she has gotten so strong from the inside out

They both went to court with her to show support. They will continue to do this. So my daughter has a good attorney and her family to back her up. They are moving in with her and she is catching up on the utilities so at least they will not get cut off. They hope to help to pay the mortgage and that will show a judge that she is trying to hang onto the house

My stepdaughter and her husband have been out of our lives with minimal contact, because my stepdaughterhas MS and she was a full time caregiver for his grandma and they stayed with her until she died.

It has so perked up my husband that he is more clear minded and he looks so forward to spending time with his family. We have decided that Sunday will be family day and when we go over to my daughters house they will make a feast. The girls are in heaven. My son in law makes breakfast for the girls and sees them off to school. They are helping my daughter to catch up on the bills.

So much for the arrogant prick husband of my daughter that he had won and brainwashed her. There is so much love and healing going on now in her home.

Yesterday my son in law drove me to the oral surgeon for a consultation to have two broken teeth taken out of my mouth and then he took me to go and pick up my prescription yesterday. He had to

Oh well I am going to name their names from now on. It is getting confusing to me to write about this.

My daughters name is Sarah, my oldest granddaughter is named Ezri and my youngest is named Jadzia.

My stepdaughters name is Christine and her husbands name is Chris. I will just use their names from now on.

There is so much love and healing and restoration for the whole family

Chris took me to the oral surgeon because I had never been there before. Then he took me to get my prescription and had to pick up vitamins for my daughter Sarah.

My stepdaughter Christine spent the time visiting with my husband. Having not been able to be close to being with my family has taken its toll on us. Poor kenny, my husband is suddenly perking up because we are surrounded by such a positive and healing family.

My stepdaughter brought over some pasta and some chiken soup she homemade and some pasta, which I froze for when I have my surgergy. My daughter Sarah will be my drver for when I get my oral surgery to extract two broken teeth.

Yesterday when we got home, I orderred pizza and both Chris and Christine staye and I gave them my collection of vinaly records which he was thrilled about. It had alot of albums that he did not have, and he was both delighted and thrilled. I also gave him my big selection of cds. Alot of them were my sons.

He was so happy. They had a blast going through him. He is all into music and has such a collect music to download into his computer.

The girls Ezri and jadzia are healing so much to havetheir uncle and aunt in the house with the. We are one big happy family. Iam healing too.

I can see the healthy way all of the pieces are fitting togeter.

Hugs and prayers for you in this horrendous situation. I have one word too, Kharma. What we send out comes back to us. I am sure your mom will get some justice in time. I do not know when or how, etc. But it is so trued.

You and your mom are in my prayers.

Eleanor, thank you for your words of wisdom and and reality. It will not be cut and dried. My daughters ex husband is lying under oath and he is lying to dig him out of the hole he is digging for himself.

He has access to guns. He had some hidden in the attic and he got them out of the house before they arrested him.

You are so right about all of the twists and turns.

But our family is pulling together now and backing her up.She found a passport he had in a backback and she tore it up.

That was one of the things he was looking for in his stuff when he came over.

This man is a complete stranger to us. He has lied to everyone the whole time. He has been stocking up on guns and money.

But we need a lucky break.

Thank you so much for the gentle words of reality in how to endure as we go through this. Hugs.


Thanks so much Movin On. I so appreciate your words of comfort, encouragement, and hope, and kindness. I am trying to take care of myself. Hugs to you.

 

[anni]

I haven't been here for a few days, just SO busy plus I'm tired of my head. I see this last from you is from a few weeks ago, hope all is well and you're just, plain busy with that lovely family. If you've had oral surgery by now, iew for you, NOT fun, I know, I hope your family fed you decadent milkshakes for a few days. Milkshakes have no calories if you have to drink them for medical purposes. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

I LOVE the names your daughter picked for her girls, so, so pretty!

Anyway, just thought I'd stop and say 'Hi'. I know sometimes it's just ENOUGH, and talking about all the dreck is something to leave in the rearview mirror for awhile. A lot of people are not at all religious, and I never, ever push what I believe on anyone else, but I generally just say to the Big Guy ( which is what I'm doing at the moment ) " You know what? Enough, already. If there's a lesson in all this, send me a d*m postcard because I'm not getting it. I've done everything I can do, now it's YOUR turn. "

Hugs, and Peace.

 

[JustBe]

Ditto! How are you Giz?