General My Son Got Beat Up-Big Freaking Mess

[jods]

I'm sorry to hear that happened to him. I'm sure you are doing all you can to help him deal with this.

Please take take of yourself too.

 

[becvan]

Thanks everyone.

Matt seen his therapist today. He told me it helped him. He also spoke to his EA from school and they have made sure Matt knows to go and find him if he is stressed out or scared at any time at school. Matt will be going back to school tomorrow! I'm rather happy about this as I was getting worried that he wouldn't go back at all! The school has bent over backwards to work with Matt to get him back in and same with the therapist.

I'm rather relieved that we have gotten through the worst part!

I've been fairly cranky the last few days and have been suffering from some severe stress headaches but I think both of us have weathered this rather well!

bec

 

[Kathy]

Wonderful news Bec! I do hope the first day back at school goes well for Matt. Sorry to hear of your headaches, I hope you are already feeling a bit better and getting all the rest you need.

 

[Nicolette]

Great to hear Matt is back off to school Bec. I hope all goes well.

 

[batgirl]

Oh that's really good Bec, very good news considering what happened to him. Matt is brave and strong, I hope he realizes that!

 

[becvan]

This morning did not go well. I am on a newly upped dosages for my meds and I do not wake up right now. Matt must have woken me about five times this morning, with complaints about not wanting to go to school. Anything from I'm scared to I just puked. I ended up yelling at him and he went to school.

I feel like a heel. I don't remember much of this morning but it wasn't nice of me to yell. He will be home in a few hours and I'm hoping his day went better than this morning. I'm going to have a nice chat with him when he gets home and see how it went.

UGH.

bec

 

[Kathy]

Sorry to hear it Bec. I do hope the rest of the day is better for both of you. I understand feeling badly for yelling, as I have done it myself on several occasions. It is quite a guilty feeling that I believe only another mother understands. I am hopeful it will sort itself out however, as the two of you are close. Take care.

 

[Jen]

I hope Matt does alright and understands why you were not quite right in the morning!:hello:

 

[becvan]

LOL, he came home and told me about myself this morning. Guess I was grumbling about all sorts of things and I don't remember any of it! He told me not to take my meds anymore. LOL, he had quite the sense of humor about it.

He puked a few times this morning from stress. Once here and once at school. He managed to stick to classes though and even had a chat with the child involved in the whole episode. They played basketball together and Matt said there are no problems. Matt had to stay back at the school for a play the other kids went to, as there were over a 1000 kids present. He did very good today.

He still has an upset stomach but he knows it's just the anxiety. Thankfully he doesn't hold grudges and just found this morning rather funny with me. He knew this morning I was all drugged up and not making sense!

Hopefully tomorrow his anxiety will lessen a bit more and he won't be puking his guts out! Gave him a break tonight and I did all his chores, so that should help some.

bec

 

[Kathy]

Oh that is very amusing Bec, I am glad he took it so well. Obviously you are a very good Mum to him, and he sounds like a wonderful child. I believe he did very well and I hope today is even better for him.

 

[Jim]

Coming into this late Bec. However. Sorry to hear what happened to your boy. Cruel little bastards. Delighted he's got back on his feet already. Good sign. Both of you take care now.

Jim.

 

[becvan]

Thanks Jim and Kathy.

Jim: I also yelled at Matt yesterday during high anxiety. You keep saying you should know better, LOL, and god so should I! We all make mistakes.. quit beating yourself up so much over it. I will if you will? Deal?

bec