Relationship My gf has ptsd, cant find her help

[MICHAEL44]

I’ve been with the sweetest soul I’ve ever known for four years and she Has PTSD and was with a narcissistic sociopath for 24 years, and let me tell you he is the poster child for a narcissistic sociopath every definition and term he probably created it he definitely lives it. And no one to this day knows it or believes it he has them all under his manipulation. And he was a detective and sheriff deputy. She was mentally sexually financially abused Physically only through the sexual abuse.And we have yet to get her professional therapy. We have just been figuring out over the past couple years what her issues are. Along with doctors diagnosis. She has been to a couple therapist that have really damaged her more because they did not know how to treat PTSD. We’ve only got one hand left on the rope a give it all to get her heart and soul the joy and happiness they so certainly deserve. and to let her be happy again. She also raised five children through all that and lost one year and a half ago. She’s trying to mourn the loss of her 23-year-old daughter through a horrible divorce she’s trying to get going. Along with other issues and her narcissistic husband has desecrated her reputation destroyed her relationships with her friends and family I alone stand by her side and I will fight till I die to restore her life and her happiness. I’ve seen and no I’m the only one he could not get to and His blood boils over it. He’s attacked me once. I’ve been doing the best I can I don’t have everything know where the skill to treat her the way she needs to be with a therapist I need help I need help badly I think I can find it here something led me to this placeAnybody got any suggestions for finding the proper help for this beautiful soul?

 

[Sweetpea76]

Have you researched trauma therapists in your area who specialize in PTSD?

 

[ken south]

Michael,

I understand what you are going through and how you feel. My relationship is similar in many ways although my partner is getting help there is so much she is working on that it is hard.

I know there is a beautiful person in there, I just have to help that person feel safe.