Need ideas and suggestions for a cleansing ceremony for my toxic daughter

[Deleted member 12723]

I have been going no contact with my daughter now going on six months and saw her and the family yesterday and she had called two police officers to protect them from bad me. She was getting her stuff out of my garage at long last. I saw that she and her boyfriend could not look me in the face at all, cowards with rage is all I can say. She was so full of rage that she actually made a complete fool of herself and the one police officer actually sided with me.

It left me devastated after they left.

What I want to do is to have some fun in creating a cleansing ceremony to get rid of the toxic waste left in my home.

I want to do something humorous and fun that I can laugh about for years to come. I am at a loss of what kinds of things I could do.

If anyone is interested in helping me that has a really great sense of humor to offer me your ideas and suggestions of how to go about doing this I would love you for it so much. I am still kind of upset and my sense of humor is not up to par right now. Please help me. Thank you for reading.

 

[Heather]

Those who stir the shit pot should have to lick the spoon.

Not really a ritual but it made me laugh. Hope you do too.

Hugs

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Now that was funny!!!:roflmao::roflmao::roflmao::roflmao::roflmao:

 

[shatter eyes]

I always trust in smudging with sage. Room to room. It is healing.

Sorry no humor because this is real.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I always trust in smudging with sage. Room to room. It is healing.

That was actually a brilliant idea, thank you so much. I will take real any day. :happy:

 

[Tornadic Thoughts]

"Smudge that shit!" is one of my favorite responses whenever there's been less than desirable vibes/scents in any of my spaces. I use sage sticks and follow it with some smoke from a palo santo stick. Two of my favorite smells, ever. I tend to smudge on a regular basis now, whereas before, I'd wait until I felt overwhelmed or inundated with other peoples baggage. There again, yet another lesson learned about practicing things when you aren't in a shit storm so they'll be more beneficial when the shit does hit the fan. lol

 

[Deleted member 12723]

"Smudge that shit!" is one of my favorite responses whenever there's been less than desirable vibes/scents in any of my spaces.

I have done this before in a home I was trying to sell, every room was done, and the house rather quickly so I am going to do this for sure. I will take what ever kind of ideas that work to cleanse my space here.

 

[gealach]

I'm a fan of fire, burning the things that remind me of trauma is cleansing. We have a plate smashing place here, you could break some things associated with them and create something new like a mosaic frame. You could try pottery, or make some jewellery. Or Halloween is coming, you could make an ugly ogre out of their clothes to scare the kids, or create a cemetery and bury all those who have hurt you (I love Halloween).

 

[Deleted member 12723]

create a cemetery and bury all those who have hurt you (I love Halloween).

I love this idea so much! I cannot do fire as I live in a apartment, but I do have a yard and could make a stick figure and bury it in remembrance of my daughter, .lol thank you so much, this is a great idea.:laugh:

 

[gealach]

I love this idea so much! I cannot do fire as I live in a apartment, but I do have a yard and could make a...

Make it hideous :troll: :roflmao::hilarious:

 

[illusionist]

You have taken me straight back to when I split with my ex husband...and something I laugh at, as I'm sure anyone catching me would have phoned straight for an ambulance, thinking I'd totally lost it!.....but it helped me a lot.

I rid my house of anything that could possibly be connected with him..furniture washed down with vinegar and opened all doors and windows to rid the air of his presence....took me a couple of days to feel that I'd done this properly.

Then I felt I needed to rid my own body of my own negativity regarding him. I put on the music, stripped naked, and danced like a crazy person, letting out all my rage, sorrow, regret etc...although totally exhausted afterwards I felt free!.....then I washed my body in salt to cleanse my outer body.....so felt cleansed inside and out.

Highly recommended but remember to close all windows, doors and curtains until you are done...be hard explaining that you are perfectly sane, to possible worried neighbours!

 

[NatBird]

Hi Rain,

Cleanse your home, the whole place if you can. Remove all things you no longer need regardless of whether connected to your daughter or not. This strengthen the gesture of letting go of that which doesn't bring you upliftment.

In terms of items I'd burn if possible then return to the element that you connect with the most, asking for integration.

Ritual Suggestion//
Whilst doing the work below keep windows open in each room until at the end when bringing new feeling, energy, purpose to the room.

Pull all furniture away from the walls.

Sound cleanse --
Ring a bell a certain number of times with intention in each corner of the room you're working on.

Herb cleanse --
Afterwards, burn a mixture of sage and frankincense on charcoal, these herbas are specifically for cleansing, smudge all rooms. Work along the walls from the bottom to the top. Keep your intention in mind.ls

Protection--
Once you've finished in a room leave the windows open for a while, say 2-4 hours, then smudge again with Sandlewood, this is for protection. Start inside the room and work way out, making sure to smudge the door frame!

Bring In What You Want--
After this has settled pray/meditate, whatever you do to bring good intention to the room your working, then supplement with burning aromatherapy oils to help create the atmosphere you want in your space/in each room.
For example, geranium is light, energising, uplifting feel, you can find plenty of resources online listing metaphysical, healing properties of oils.

I would also keep a protective crystal by the front door - that's just me!

You could also synchronise this with the moon cycle - full moon for releasing or new moon for bringing new things in. That's simplfying but it might also aid the work.

I know this probably sounds lengthy, maybe a bit too thorough but it has worked for me. I'll be doing it again soon with the upcoming change of upcoming all being well/good enough.

Ingredients--
Bell
Matches
Charcoal
Oil Burner
Sandlewood
White Sage
Frankincense
Aromatherapy Oils of your choice
Moon!

Hope this is helpful.