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Period and Symptoms

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Yeah, I have major problems at that wonderful time of the month (not so wonderful).:oops: There are 2 days every month where I get so depressed. I have to tell myself over and over: It's only hormones, it will pass!! Not so friendly huh? Sometimes I ask myself why this is still happening since I have already had my children and am a grandma!!!:confused:
 
I get really depressed a week before and during my period. It's usually when my flashbacks and panic attacks get to me the most. I'm not sure if it's due to the chemical imbalance at that time or the fact that my period is somewhat of a trigger/reminder of what happened or even a combination of the two. I do what I can to prepare for it and make my apologies ahead of time so people know I don't really mean what I may say or do.
 
Most people cannot tell when I have PMS because apparently I don't show signs of being "pissy," but my SO has definitely pointed out that my symptoms get much worse around this time. I'm just more depressive, withdrawn, sensitive, and I am more likely to see the worst in everything. It's just more subtle than the normal "AGH I HAVE MY PERIOD MUST DESTROY EVERYONE'S GOOD TIME." I just really mess MYSELF up.
 
Another quick comment-- I am much more likely to react poorly to "good stress" during these times. I just can't enjoy myself.
 
I do feel worse around that time, but I was never great before PTSD so I can't actually say whether it's PTSD being worse or just that I have PMS alongside the PTSD if that makes sense
 
Don't look forward to menopause too much. I'm finding it is messing with me even worse than periods did!

Re-traumatisation and menopause at the same time, I have to laugh. Or go mad (der) :roflmao:
 
The night before mine, and that day and the night to follow, it appears I become extremely saddened and depressed. I lose perspective and think fearfully with catastrophic thinking. I worry, worry, worry, withdraw and cry, cry, cry.

My Ptsd doesn't necessary flare up unless unmanageable triggers arise which so often can when I'm crying alone, and/or when I cry and it is overheard and met with indifference or criticism. The depression and negative thinking gets pretty bad too; And, these threaten me and I become terribly afraid and will just lay there quietly in despair until I fall asleep.

This happened just the other night and then again the next day and night; It seems to be intense, (has come on abruptly and yet be rather short-lived); Like I said, only two days. Somehow I've got to remember this so that I am more prepared for the sudden and intense depression, crying and the impaired thinking/confusion/fear that comes with it.

I'm really glad I read this thread afterall. I'm not much into reading about periods, don't have PMS, and not much into commenting about such, but funny I did.
 
This was a good read! I get PMS and, boy it isn't fun. It has gotten better over the past year...not sure if it is therapy but it went from about a week long to 3 days. I know therapy does help me manage the symptoms better. I make sure to chart my day started so that I can be ready. Honestly, I schedule around those 2 days prior and the day starting. I can work but I attempt not to do anything super stressful like travel. When I know it is the *bad* day (I know because I feel like ripping my own skin off and every little thing seems huge), I ask hubby for extra help, schedule the day best I can to include lots of down time and easy activities with the kids. And I ask hubby to understand a bit. I also try to give myself a bit of extra understanding and pampering. Its been helpful...I wish it would go away already though.
 
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