Ptsd Relationship

[Army_Brat_88]

Well then, go for it girl :tup: Only you both know and understand your situation, and if you're in agreement on it all, then who's to say you should go a different route than what you both believe?! I think people on this site just try to help others prevent any other possible pain, so they offer their thoughts. But if you both are communicating honestly and openly, EVERYTHING I've read says that that's the only way it all works, so it may be all good in the end :D

 

[Mandy Tjarks]

I do understand that everyone has good intentions here. But not all of these situations end up badly.

I am going to try to back off a little more and let him come to me more. It can't hurt and then I won't be risking him feeling pressure from me. It is defiantely gonna be hard but I think it is what is best for him.

 

[Army_Brat_88]

I think we're all kinda feeling our way around in the dark on this stuff. Like you said, if he's worried he might talk with you about why you're avoiding him. Typing stuff out in here sometimes clears the head.

 

[Mandy Tjarks]

I am having a rough morning. I am feeling very anxious and now angry. I am so mad at the gov and military for doing this to him and in turn to us. I am also very angry at his ex for not letting him move one with his life and be happy. I am seeing my therapist today which I am looking forward to. I know that our relationship is ok but I need to figure out how to deal with my issues so I can be there for him.

Work is the last place I want to be right now. I just want to scream. I feel like I am being selfish for feeling this way. I want feel calm and positive about everything like i did last night.