Question About My Mother!

[daniel]

Thank you all again, I hate my mother soo much actually my whole family because they all knew what kind of person she was! Nobody ever said anything for my defense, I had to witness so many terrible things because of her, now I live with her because I have terrible agoraphobia and social phobia plus I have terrible nausea all the time, I'm kinda dependent on her, now I learned she didn't pay rent for two months, I'm scared they are gonna kick us out of our home, it already happened once, it was one of the worst experiences of my life, I NEED to do something! It's gonna be so difficult for me, I only need four courses then I will get my degree hope everything works out well! today I mentioned what she did to me, and of course she denies it or she says things like it was all in fun etc, oh well ...

Thank you all for listening, I really appreciate it :):D
xx

 

[Froggie]

Linking arms with you Daniel, this seems to be a very hard period for you. Your mother seems very irresponsable - not paying rent for 2 months, oh my, can understand the stress this can cause.

I'm not surprised about the answer she gave you when you confronted her. Very typical abuser's answer. For your sake, be careful when you confront her, abusers are very manipulative people and have a way of shaking off their responsabilities on others easilier, especially onto their victimes. Get the support you need during this period, you deserve that.

Wish you best of luck with your studies and keep posting.

 

[daniel]

thank you so much Froggie :)