Relationship Struggles

[PureDogs]

@Mary

Glad I'm not only one.

It's nice to have someone else who has similar and can help to overcome fear.

 

[scout86]

t probably sounds silly I know, that's why I never talk about it with anyone.

That doesn't sound silly at all!

Personally, I think it's best to work on the insecurities that are behind all that BEFORE you have to deal with a serious relationship. Because there ARE things behind it and working through them gives you some kind of foundation to build on. Being in a relationship is complicated enough without having a lot of unresolved, unrecognized issues cluttering up the scene.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

@Nabii nabzz,
I advise working on it now because by the time you reach my age (34) it's kind of done for and you lose motivation. How do you even START to learn the ropes that everyone else knew 20 years ago? It's kind of embarrassing.

 

[Me Myself and I]

Thank you everyone, I'll make sure to treasure your advices. ((Hugs)) for all of you if you accept. :)

 

[GG-love]

I have the same fears, the issue I have been having is that those fears didn't come to the surface until recently after 6 months, so I have to keep reminding myself that abusers are the exception not the rule in relationships and that being vulnerable and letting someone in can be a wonderful thing.