lostforgottensoul
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I disagree
That might be the key.
I also have no support, at all, but this and one other site. If I were to get into a relationship and let someone close enough that I felt I could be myself :wideeyed: but but myself is a completely horrible person and must f*ck up everyone around me and make their life horrible so they are better without me.
Ive even had those negitive distortions about this site, I make this site a horrible place and they would be better off if i left. Ive had that thought many of times.
What to do, thats hard as ive never had anyone want to come back to me. Id say some reassurence that he makes your life better, that the real him that he says he can be with you enriches your life and how.
Unsure of how much to do this as i think it can turn into some weird codependant or needing constant reassurence thing but i do think, especially since he has no support, that he's scared that the real him is going to push you away or you are better off without the real him and possible to be "leave her before she leaves me" which i also do.
Do you know if he has any other mental disorders besides PTSD?
Thats just my opinion from my view of things; what I do and how I see things.
