Revenge Wedding Plans - Justified Or Childish?

[CraftyCath]

The only reason I would go, if I were you, would be to stand with my man for support.

Now that makes a lot of sense! :tup: If you are up to it. Keep us posted Bubz. Looking forward to seeing the dresses!

 

[Whitneys story]

Great idea, you are so adorable you could wear a flour sack and be stunning! Your so sweet to share your fun with us. I can't wait to see the pics either. Hugs, Whitney

 

[HëllaBubz]

Aww shucks Whitney :shy:....now I'm going to have to go find a rug to hide under!

You got any idea how hard that is when you're in an industrial workshop!:p

 

[Whitneys story]

Ha Ha, Hela! No you may not buy a rug either. Gotcha! The world is smiling with you. Something just popped in, and I don't recall anyone presenting this one.

So common for adoring friends to want to feel the tummy. Touch the baby tummy. My friend got around this by saying no! It is part of the bonding with you and daddy for now.

She would not allow some people to hold the baby until he was 3 months old. Just thought you might be in need of a simple out.

Black eyes avoided on others, and easy on you! :) Hugs, Whitney

 

[HëllaBubz]

I like it! And yes, I'm going to be a possessive @#%/, and I'm not ashamed either!
Showed mum the dresses I wanted to wear for the wedding, she thought they both looked bad on me, so that was really discouraging.

Not sure what I'll do now.

Just put 3 nursing bras on layby, total 195!!! Well at least I have 3 months to pay it off!

 

[CraftyCath]

she thought they both looked bad on me,

Interpretation of 'Mother Language...' 'They look lovely but I'm not telling you that!'

Get a second opinion Bubz!;)

 

[Whitneys story]

Did I miss the photos? ;) Whitney

 

[HëllaBubz]

Well.....mum took me out shopping, and we found a really nice striped black and white dress that flattered both me and baby bump.
I also found some lovely supportive opaque black tights, and black snake-skin style heeled pumps.

So the other half has decided to spoil me, and I'm going to get my hair dyed, a small trim, and a style for the day of the wedding. The awesome thing is that I found a really good hairdresser that both myself and mum has been to in the past, and they can do it for $130, for everything, and considering the cheapest quote I've found so far isn't below $250, I thought that it was pretty good!

Since posting up pics can start copyright crap, I'll post up a few links to styles that I've been looking at, and you can tell me what you think.

Style 1

Style 2

Style 3

I was going to post up links to the dress and shoes, but inexplicably, it's not on the website of the store, so I'll just show you when I put it on! :p

I like the hair style because it means I won't have to touch up roots once bubby is born, so it works really well!

 

[Changing4Best]

You need to do what feels right to you and yours. Go for it.

 

[HëllaBubz]

UPDATE: Just got off the phone to the other half's brother.

Apparently 5 years ago, when I stayed at the biological MIL's place, we fought (?), and now she hates me.
Reminded the bro-in-law about the baby shower, he couldn't give a shit, and then started shit about how we supposedly know what we are having (it was 80% boy first 2 scans, 90% girl for next scan!).

So honestly, I don't think there is anything holding us in Melbourne any more.
A nice backwater with nice acreage sounds just about perfect for us.

I wonder what has been fed to the mother to make her hate me. It will not matter if I ever get better, because the whole family will just hate me still anyway.

 

[Changing4Best]

So honestly, I don't think there is anything holding us in Melbourne any more.
A nice backwater with nice acreage sounds just about perfect for us.

OHHHH... how nice that sounds! Go for it.

 

[CraftyCath]

I like the hair style

Looks really pretty Bubz!

Getting away and starting a life in a new place sounds fantastic but then I'm biased as that is what I've always wanted to do.