Revenge Wedding Plans - Justified Or Childish?

[CraftyCath]

Hi Bubz,

Glad the wedding was OK? Your highlights looked lovely in the picture.

As for little bubz kicking....don't know what planet these people are on but I think it is one without pregnant women on it! My two kicked from 16 weeks and I mean kicked! I felt flutters before but these were massive, I could sometimes feel a whole foot pushing up into my belly! My first one would do such massive somersaults that my belly would move really dramatically and make me feel like I had an alien in there. He also used to kick me under the ribs when I was further on and I would have to push his foot back down! :eek:

Time for you two to concentrate on each other and baby and enjoy it as much as you can.

Huge hugs. :hug:

 

[HëllaBubz]

My two kicked from 16 weeks and I mean kicked! I felt flutters before but these were massive

Yeah, I've felt mine from about 14 weeks, although I wonder if it's the PTSD making us more sensitive?!
I've had a lot of movement, although the past few days has been mostly low kicks, I guess she'll do somersaults in a day or two, but right now it's just doing a sit-on-my-ass-and-kick dance!

I guess my response to what the MIL said was more because I knew that the BIL must have been saying something in the background for her to have said something like that, and I've really tried to listen to the other half when he said that the BIL's attitude was changing......except for me, his behaviour does not indicate that in the slightest.

Sigh.

Just so over everything right now, feeling more and more like I want to withdraw and just not talk to anyone, it just feels like a lot of effort at the moment.

 

[CraftyCath]

It's fine to take time out Bubz and you will need and deserve it but don't isolate yourself. Have some nice time with other friends and your lovely man and steer clear of the poisonous people until you have the strength - physically and emotionally.

You and little Bubz are the most important things at the moment.

Huge hugs! :hug:

 

[HëllaBubz]

Unfortunately, I have very few friends that I can rely upon or am generally in contact with, so wherever I move, I doubt I'll be isolating myself much.

I just want to start afresh, away from people who can drop in at any moment, out of reach of everybody except my other half, where I can tend to my and my family's needs.

I really want to show my other half just how good life can be when you are loved by your child and wife, away from poison from the families of origin and doing the things he and I have always wanted.

 

[CraftyCath]

You are so right Bubz.

H and I want to move in the future to a quieter area by the sea. We just don't have the money yet and in order to afford it we will have to downsize. We can't to that with my two big lads at home.

doing the things he and I have always wanted.

Absolutely! Sounds wonderful!