General Room-Mate Has PTSD

[Abstract]

Hugs Pencil if Ok.

 

[Pencil]

Thanks Abstract! :)

 

[Pencil]

But, Abstract, you saw it - the Bubzilla made me do it!!

:D

 

[DharmaGirl]

I think I belong in this group since I have such huge attachment issues. I still work myself up with the fact that one day, I will be better, and I won't need to see my therapist and it will be a huge loss. That makes me miserable, so I want to quit therapy so I have control over the loss.

On the other hand, I like Pencil and Bubs, so I'm glad I fit in! Yay!

 

[HëllaBubz]

Hmm, I'm so used to losing friends that I don't get really attached anymore.

It's interesting because I can watch a person die and be unmoved, but if my partner is hurting, it will reduce me to tears.

Pets are a different story though.

I wonder how that person with the housemate is doing.

 

[Abstract]

they have been unable to respond positively in any way to the actions of the poster.....it does make you wonder what else is playing behind the scenes.

And I'd totally move out, home is a haven, safe, warm, comfortable and somewhere to relax......sounds of current location are more akin to a toddler purgatory which is fast growing.

I wonder how that person with the housemate is doing.

And again the person diagnosed with BPD is the one more focused on Laxter's boundaries than Pencil and I! ;)

I do agree and hope Laxter comes back and lets us know how things have progressed.

I usually can see things from a 3rd party perspective

And with your lessor abandonment issues it again shows how symptom severity and combination varies individually methinks.

Monster! You are in very good company I agree. :)

quit therapy so I have control over the loss.

Abandonment issues are sooo painful and relationship interfering.

ubzilla made me do it!!

:roflmao:

 

[Pencil]

I responded to kgggirl, who joined, posted and disappeared. Do you think her roommate locked her in the broom closet?

Monster, I think we should become ultra attached to one another - it might make us relax around therapists. I haven't seen mine in 6 months, and yet I'm still unable to let go - and she lets me stay attached, bless her heart!!

Abandonment issues are sooo painful and relationship interfering.

OH hell yes!

 

[DharmaGirl]

That would cure us. If we were super attached then I could finally let go of holding on to my therapist so much that I have to ditch him, lol.

 

[HëllaBubz]

Cheaper too! Donations to the site would go a lot fyrther than the copay I fork out each week!