THANK YOU for clarifying that you have lab puppy experience
@lostforgottensoul because I was gonna strongly second Justmehere's concerns and hinted at my concerns about raising a puppy, and a lab puppy that is, for someone who has PTSD and mobility issues in my previous post. Great that you do have a plan!
And YES, the emotional and energy costs of raising a retriever (aka labs and goldens) puppy are
extremely underestimated by most everyone who's never had one before. Because you'll only ever hear the cute and success stories. I've been that person who broke down crying and genuinely considered rehoming because it was just too much when we had our first puppy. A golden that was supposedly be "easy" because of their friendly nature and "high will too please". I've never been so wrong in my life. Destroyed wallpaper, destroyed carpet, an unlimited number of uneaten socks, an entire back of FROZEN dinner rolls eaten from the counter within mere seconds of turning our backs, ... our second golden pulled out my driver's license from my wallet from my closed bag in my closed room (yep, she taught herself to open doors within months old).
They chew and destroy absolutely anything. And while also true for goldens, it's definitely even more exacerbated for labs that they're literally never full.
A retriever puppy absolutely is not for the faint of heart and most definitely not for anyone without a rock solid plan and/or a good trainer at hand from day 1. (and even that part didn't help us back in the day).
Most retrievers don't mellow down until at least age 2, some never.
I've been a long-term member of a large retriever community in my country and from everything I've read over the years I know I personally would never get a lab.
Hence why it's also so important to go with a reputable breeder because they at least have some insight into temperament and can look for the more mellow puppy - which is still no guarantee, of course, but at least a slightly better chance.
@price: most reputable breeders actually ask more for a yearling than a 8-weeks old puppy for precisely the reason that a dog at that age is already house-broken, has gone through at least some training, has had more vaccinations etc.
I think you made a good decision sticking with the first breeder. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for an older puppy for you from her or a breeder friend, but even if you end up getting a puppy, I think she's the right choice. Connecting with your breeder is super important and you should really go with your gut. It still irks me that she's not AKC and I also couldn't find her in k9data; maybe ask her about that, there might be valid reasons because everything I've read on that website and what you've told us about her sounds like your standard reputable AKC breeder and she does say on her website she has dogs coming from AKC lines.
I know it's hard to be patient (who am I kidding, struggling with this myself), but November really isn't that far off all things considered and the few more months are worth the wait to get a well-tempered and healthy dog from someone who obviously cares about their dogs but also their buyers and will most likely continue to offer support if needed later on.
Getting excited for you :)
(PS: no antlers for retrievers. At least never never ever unsupervised. And that means even if you're home/in the same room. Between the retriever community I mentioned and actually being close friends with a vet, you've really heard every story possible...)