Relationship So Be It

[Pam]

My advice: re the gifts. Go to the nearest giving tree and find a wish card that is close to what you have bought and give them to charity. And put that card in the locked room.

 

[Nicolette]

I agree with Pam. I would not give gifts to someone who has just broken my heart. It inadvertently leaves the door open for more contact which is not helpful to you but also the opposite as if he doesn't even respond to say thank you then you will be hurt. A charity is more deserving.

If this man doesn't accept you as part of his life do what you need to do with the card but don't send it to him....you are only kidding and hurting yourself. Go forward with pride - that you deserve better than how he has left you and do not make 'reasons' to have contact. Let it be so your heart can heal. :Hug_emoticon:

 

[CCurry]

I have nothing new to add here but just wanted to say ditto to what Pam and Nicolette wrote.

You'll be setting yourself up for more hurt!