Hi :)
Am a newbie and a friend of a PTSD sufferer.
However, as a mum to a teenage boy (16) who also has autism alongside scoliosis (idiopathic and picked up as a 15 year old), we gad no choice but to go down the road of a spinal fusion. When he was finally diagnosed and saw the scoliosis specialist at the Royal Children's Hospital in Melbourne, in Nov last year, his curvature was 59 degrees. By March this year it was 61 degrees. And as an already tall and big boy, who was nearly fumly grown, the surgeon told me he'd get progressively worse by at least a degree or 2 a year. By 30 he'd be incredibly bent to the side and irreparable.
June 5th this year, he had the spinal fusion. T4- L3.
Everything went well (a part from not being listened to properly in regards to the dire need of pre- med and an acute anxiety attack), was done on a Tuesday morning and we left the hospital late on the Thursday night. Drove 3 hrs home, with pain meds and no issues at all (other than redressing his wound twice the next day). Was like having a newborn again for the first 2 weeks- log rolling in and out of bed multiple times a night but quickly his ability to do it himself came (he just wanted cuddles lol) and he quickly got back into his usual routine.
6 weeks after his op, he had medical review- he gained 5-6cm and was a shade under 6 foot. Best thing was seeing the huge difference on his spine. He was and is pretty damn straight! I have the comparison pics available if anyone wants to see.
Very rarely complains of back pain and was off all opioid pain meds after 2 weeks and now rarely has any type of pain meds- ie panadol or nurofen.
Was it worth it? YES! Does he wish he can bend his back again- yes, but he has an excellent handle on bending his knees properly to achieve the same action. Also, 4 months on, he can do almost everything he did before surgery.
Originally, I was really astounded by the mere fact according to the scoliosis specialist nurse, kids dont need rehab- or even physio/ OT afterwards (out of hospital), mainly due to kids naturally being motivated and obeying their inner urge to move around frequently. Really tripped my mind! But it is pretty much true.
However, adults are different, in that they are more reluctant to mobilise after surgery, mainly due to the fear of pain when moving. Therefore more complications happen with adults.
The surgery scared the crap out of him- poor guy, but as the first thing he said in recovery "I'm not dead!"
World class surgeon, world class and renowned hospital and best of all- public hospital which embodies world class healthcare that didnt cost us anything for the procedure or hospital stay. Just a bomb in carparking fees lol
This is just our scoliosis success story and of course, you have to do the best thing for you. Research, get numerous opinions from top surgeons and please don't rely solely on the internet or Dr Google graduates. Whatever you do or don't do, there are always differences in opinions and personal experiences. So again, do what you yourself need to do- for you x
Thank you x