Still Really Upset Re: Therapy Session With Sister

[Heather]

My sister and I agreed to sit down with HER therapist and discuss a better way to get our kids together without so much tension but that's not what happened.

Her husband sexually assaulted me about 7yrs ago.

Her therapist asked me what happened during that incident which I disclosed - Big Mistake. It was clear he was 100% on my sisters side.

I spent the entire time I was there defending myself. I fet pretty much raked over the coals. All the prep-work I'd done with my therapist was for nothing (or so i felt that way).

My sister said about 5 sentences the entire time. I kept telling her therapist we were there to talk about getting together with the kids and trying to make it less uncomfortable. He kept hammering that I'm accusing her husband of sexual assaulting me so how could she ever feel comfortable or expect to trust me again?! This was my sisters idea. I said to her, "then what did you start this for?"

I told him that this is not helpful..... It fell on deaf ears. The whole session was like that. My therapist was shocked that it went in that direction.

It's been a couple of weeks since and it's been rough. I am not lying. What he did hurt me immensely and still has an impact on me to this day.

I feel raw, emotional, sad, angry -- very, very, very angry. I told the truth and I'm being punished for it and that is NOT FAIR damn it!

I've been hallucinating again too. Not sure if the stress of this is pushing my emotional stability over the edge but Im hearing voices and seeing things.

Where is the justice in this world? 'Cause it's certainly not in West Haven, Connecticut.

 

[pi314159]

I'm so sorry you were treated that way. It must have been horrible. Your sister's therapist should not have spoken to you or treated you that way.

I hope this forum helps you through this .

 

[Rumors]

Just wondering, but where is the douche bag husband? Why is he off the hook? Has he ever offered to meet up in a therapy session to resolve this? Does he acknowledge his crime? Or, has he simply claimed you are mistaken?

This I know, if you are waiting for justice, you could be there a while. It never comes as quickly as you need it and sometimes it just never comes at all. However, Justice has a friend, Karma, and he drives a bus and almost never misses. ;-)

Hang in there!

 

[Heather]

The douche bag is completely off the hook and denies the whole thing which of course my sister believes HIM and not me. -- WHAT A MESS --.

I like what you say about justice and I need to keep that in mind. Karma is a b*tch and it has my sister and her husband's face plastered all over it:dance:.

Thanks for the support.