supergirl, I may be soo out of line saying this...but wow Im going to anyway;
you created the group yes?
you ban him if you want- and it wil have to be tough on him. I am thinking that it is not a support group or one that helps with PTSD or anything ...so ok if that is the point... and if he really wants to be in a group to get to know others from ...school was it? well he can go and make his own bloody group. The guy raped you-dump his ass.
~fin
who so doesnt know where this is coming from at the moment but what the hell, its good and its strong and its empowering. Be empowerd to, DUMP HIS ASS, he so should not have fcked with you.
I hope it is ok to be saying something like this...I know it has helped me just typing it out, but you dont have to agree or do anything I say, this is just how I am feeling right now. I say the guy raped you fck him who cares how he feels now. He is lucky to even have acess to facebook let alone all the [people he can contact on it- fck him Supergirl, you are just that a super girl, stay pissed off all you want but cut the guy out and dwon to size, he was a wanker of the first degree, fck him, you dont have to be all public about it if you dont want I am sure that you can just diump him...I am sure groups on facebook do that all the time. And believe me if the guy is a rapist he may well be looking for someone else to do it to there and you may be giving him the means and opportunity to let him carry on.
We do what we can do...you may not have been able to do more at the time...but you can now, and you dont have to justify it ot anyone if you dont want to ...I am thinking you created the group you can have who you want in it.
Or maybe even change the type of group it is and offer others a way to join a new group. I have no idea how you could go about it, all I know is you can do something more if you want to try to, this is not law, or court or anything like that it is facebook and you dont have to see the guys face if you dont want to.
I hope that this can maybe help you some...I know it has helped me a bit to do this anyway. Thankyou, and again I guess this is maybe a little transference also??? sorry about that!!
supergirl this is for you :Hug_emoticon:it is ok , you will get through this- PTSD, the forumworking on it and getting it out, can help you get something back, something you maybe never even had to start with, you can become equipped with the tools that can help you turn your life around. It can help you learn to manage, it is helping me being here on this forum... I am begining to see real change in me. I believe it can happen for you also. I hope you can and will see this too.
